Overstepping boundaries

[Buzzworthy]

Don’t fucking do it.

Even if your intentions are good, it might not be seen like that through their eyes.

Respect other people’s space, time and wishes.

[sb]

[stuckathuntermtn]

Go on...

[mcski]

Public masturbation?

[PB]

But was it furious???

[irul&ublo]

A rude PM to Rontele?

[CarlMega]

Says it all

[Buzzworthy]

Flew out my wife’s friend to watch our two Danes for the week while we were in Mexico. She used to live here close and knows the boys.

But she’s out there and we knew this from the day we met her.

She asked me what my wife would like done here to surprise her once we got home. Cool, water plants, play with dogs, enjoy drinks and the fancy water vase in the garage. If you get a wild hair, wifey wouldn’t say no to a weeded garden in the backyard so she doesn’t have to do it once she got back. But I said on three different occasions. Please do not go nuts. Just enjoy your quiet time, chill out from her 3 kids back at home and chillax.

Well we find out on vacation she’s recently has been put on Adderal to combat a new ADHD diagnosis. She literally could not sit still and was an energizer bunny. I wondered what was going on before we left but nothing was said then.

Fast forward a few days and I get a frantic phone call that my Dane Grimm has had a seizure. Switched over to FaceTime immediately and he’s shaking and foaming at the mouth. My heart sank. Full on fucking panic ensues with my girls and with two days left of vacation it’s over. Turns out she bought pest spray and went nuts outside too. What?!???!!!!!! Are you fucking kidding me????

Fast forward two miserable days later, we finally get home and see our boys and smother them. Grimm seems ok but he has a vet appointment in a few days.

After all that had cleared and he seems ok, I start to unload the suitcases. Started to notice all sorts of weird shit on the walls. Decorations here, new “word art” there. Um what?

She redecorated 6 rooms in our house. Put holes all over my walls with this crap. And crap it is, bad taste. She rearranged our whole front patio that we spent this spring on getting it setup. Laundry room, rearranged, redecorated in a configuration that no sane person would do. Back patio furniture, rearranged.

She made what should’ve been a relaxing time into chaos and was proud of herself. Now instead of us relaxing after vacation, we have to spend the day tomorrow patching holes, painting and putting things back to normal.

All she had to do was watch the dogs and catch a buzz.

[CarlMega]

Eeeeek. Sorry. Pup in crisis is triggering.

Don't know if that is general bad judgement or drugs. Might better to blame drugs or disorder.

No one needs an emergency while they're on vay-cay. Sorry.

[Brownski]

“Overstepping boundaries” is not the phrase I would use to describe that behavior. That is something else. Hope your dog is ok.

[bennymac]

That’s mania. Glad your dogs are gonna be okay that’s a fucked up story

[MakersTeleMark]

Flew out my wife’s friend to watch our two Danes for the week while we were in Mexico. She used to live here close and knows the boys.

But she’s out there and we knew this from the day we met her.

She asked me what my wife would like done here to surprise her once we got home. Cool, water plants, play with dogs, enjoy drinks and the fancy water vase in the garage. If you get a wild hair, wifey wouldn’t say no to a weeded garden in the backyard so she doesn’t have to do it once she got back. But I said on three different occasions. Please do not go nuts. Just enjoy your quiet time, chill out from her 3 kids back at home and chillax.

Well we find out on vacation she’s recently has been put on Adderal to combat a new ADHD diagnosis. She literally could not sit still and was an energizer bunny. I wondered what was going on before we left but nothing was said then.

Fast forward a few days and I get a frantic phone call that my Dane Grimm has had a seizure. Switched over to FaceTime immediately and he’s shaking and foaming at the mouth. My heart sank. Full on fucking panic ensues with my girls and with two days left of vacation it’s over. Turns out she bought pest spray and went nuts outside too. What?!???!!!!!! Are you fucking kidding me????

Fast forward two miserable days later, we finally get home and see our boys and smother them. Grimm seems ok but he has a vet appointment in a few days.

After all that had cleared and he seems ok, I start to unload the suitcases. Started to notice all sorts of weird shit on the walls. Decorations here, new “word art” there. Um what?

She redecorated 6 rooms in our house. Put holes all over my walls with this crap. And crap it is, bad taste. She rearranged our whole front patio that we spent this spring on getting it setup. Laundry room, rearranged, redecorated in a configuration that no sane person would do. Back patio furniture, rearranged.

She made what should’ve been a relaxing time into chaos and was proud of herself. Now instead of us relaxing after vacation, we have to spend the day tomorrow patching holes, painting and putting things back to normal.

All she had to do was watch the dogs and catch a buzz.

Oh, man, I've actually been there very almost. But I don't know which is worse, coming back to it like you, or watching it go down in all its glory in an uncontrollable indescribable unrestrained rage in the middle of nowhere where you gather all your friends around and watch in the moment of complete insanity so you know they have your back, are not on any drugs whatsoever; part raging peep show huck and destroy fest, part me just crying in their arms and me just a pulp of letting out what I've been dealing with for the last 6 years that finally broke light. It was brutal for everyone. Still gives me the shivers. A week later after being cut off, obviously, instantly, with authorities, she says she doesn't even remember what I was asking her about why we couldn't be together? WTF? She just said, why?

OOOff. Borderline is a tough line to ride. I've been scared ever since. Haven't been able to take a deep dive with a women. I feel so bruised. That was 2018. I remain hopeful, but am beyond super skittish with any intimacy, and that wasn't even the worst of it.

[buttahflake]

So much drama out West

[subtle plague]

The West should take a lap.

[Touring_Sedan]

Flew out my wife’s friend to watch our two Danes for the week while we were in Mexico. She used to live here close and knows the boys.

But she’s out there and we knew this from the day we met her.

She asked me what my wife would like done here to surprise her once we got home. Cool, water plants, play with dogs, enjoy drinks and the fancy water vase in the garage. If you get a wild hair, wifey wouldn’t say no to a weeded garden in the backyard so she doesn’t have to do it once she got back. But I said on three different occasions. Please do not go nuts. Just enjoy your quiet time, chill out from her 3 kids back at home and chillax.

Well we find out on vacation she’s recently has been put on Adderal to combat a new ADHD diagnosis. She literally could not sit still and was an energizer bunny. I wondered what was going on before we left but nothing was said then.

Fast forward a few days and I get a frantic phone call that my Dane Grimm has had a seizure. Switched over to FaceTime immediately and he’s shaking and foaming at the mouth. My heart sank. Full on fucking panic ensues with my girls and with two days left of vacation it’s over. Turns out she bought pest spray and went nuts outside too. What?!???!!!!!! Are you fucking kidding me????

Fast forward two miserable days later, we finally get home and see our boys and smother them. Grimm seems ok but he has a vet appointment in a few days.

After all that had cleared and he seems ok, I start to unload the suitcases. Started to notice all sorts of weird shit on the walls. Decorations here, new “word art” there. Um what?

She redecorated 6 rooms in our house. Put holes all over my walls with this crap. And crap it is, bad taste. She rearranged our whole front patio that we spent this spring on getting it setup. Laundry room, rearranged, redecorated in a configuration that no sane person would do. Back patio furniture, rearranged.

She made what should’ve been a relaxing time into chaos and was proud of herself. Now instead of us relaxing after vacation, we have to spend the day tomorrow patching holes, painting and putting things back to normal.

All she had to do was watch the dogs and catch a buzz.

Yes, but how much did you tip her?

[subtle plague]

Yes, but how much did you tip her?

Options started at 37% in the App.

[t-the-east]

Started to notice all sorts of weird shit on the walls. Decorations here, new “word art” there.

Live Laugh Love

Glad the dog is ok. I would say poisoning your dog is a notch or two above overstepping boundaries

[yeahman]

This is why I don't own dogs.

[ikonfreewasatch]

So much drama out West

yeah except the drama queens and their drama are transplants from the east.

[Dexter Rutecki]

Not to victim blame or anything, but personally if I invite crazy into my house unsupervised for a week, well, I'd kind of expect something fucked up to have occurred. Obviously couldn't have predicted the particulars, but that's kind of the point--loose cannon isn't going to fire in any specific direction.

I try not to allow crazy into our place when we're around.

[old goat]

That's mental illness, not overstepping boundaries.

[mcski]

This^

[bennymac]

That’s what I said above…mania. Add in a stimulant and the problem gets turned up to 11.

[Bunion 2020]

yeah except the drama queens and their drama are transplants from the east.

And the insufferable cunts were born there? Asking for a friend.

[Buzzworthy]

That’s what I said above…mania. Add in a stimulant and the problem gets turned up to 11.

I’ve always had a suspicion she was bi polar.
But the mania description I see here combined with the Adderall, it’s spot on.

Having an abnormally high level of activity or energy.
Feeling extremely happy or excited — even euphoric.
Not sleeping or only getting a few hours of sleep but still feeling rested.
Having inflated self-esteem, thinking you're invincible.
Being more talkative than usual.