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11-10-2017, 08:13 PM #151observing free range rude
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The animal angle is key in managing expectations. Cat calls are tacky, but it's not a right to live free of them. The further you go out on the fringes of sexist activity, the more reciprocal the issues seem to be.
Reforming campus life could be a good way to make a difference in future generations' experiences both in the formative college days but also professionally. Expanding the scope too wide in this big moment will dilute the impact where it's needed most.
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11-10-2017, 08:31 PM #152
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11-10-2017, 08:51 PM #153
I've always thought the phrase "objectification of women" was not that useful. We all function as sex objects. This isn't inherently bad. The problem is that the act of objectification is often a diminishment of other aspects women, or even downright violent.
I met an anti-porn activists once a few years back. Her examples of how porn actresses are abused, or even enslaved were truly horrific. Nonetheless, I think banning porn is as bad an idea as banning all the drugs that people are going to abuse anyway. Banning a masturbation aid will only result in a more abusive black market. I think there should minimal abuse/exploitation standard for sex workers- certified free trade organic porn.
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11-10-2017, 08:58 PM #154Registered User
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11-10-2017, 09:06 PM #155
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11-10-2017, 10:18 PM #156
My friend’s wife is a pretty prominent figure in the international fight against the child sex trade (she has told me stories I wish I could forget) and she fully agrees with the first part and strongly disagrees with the second part, assuming you don’t just mean performers. She’s overseen comprehensive studies on both.
Btw- the studies that correlate porn use to increased sexual aggression are deeply, deeply flawed. They make nice headlines but don’t hold up at all to closer scrutiny.I ski 135 degree chutes switch to the road.
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11-10-2017, 10:34 PM #157
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11-10-2017, 11:00 PM #158
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11-11-2017, 12:01 AM #159
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11-11-2017, 08:37 AM #160
I think that we need a new more modern and politically correct way of de rigueur Jong initiation /abuse( cause that’s mainly what I see the “T’s or GTFO” used for).
How about:
“Please share your intimate photos of your mammaries with us and if for some reason you consider it an objectification of women or otherwise don’t wish to consent to the sexualization of your glands for the feeding of infants kindly consider leaving this particular forum”
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11-11-2017, 09:26 AM #161Funky But Chic
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The world's gonna be a better place when VR and robotics gets rid of actual sex.
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11-11-2017, 10:37 AM #162features a sintered base
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Thanks, but I think I'll stick with what we've currently got.
Oh, I don't disagree that there is an element of truth that the joke played on. Your mistake is in assuming for some reason that the joke reveals the truth about this particular photo. By reading into it what you wanted to be there you made an unwarranted conclusion. The joke relies on the fact that obviously sometimes people do take photos without consent--for this one the guy clearly said it was with consent, but played along with the joke made by someone else. If you do this regularly (take jokes literally) you will often end up believe that the opposite of what is true happened.
And I will concede that I could be wrong, but based on what was posted I don't think so. If you really want to get to the bottom of it, why not just ask him?
In any event, I'm beginning to see why you started this thread in the first place.[quote][//quote]
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11-11-2017, 10:52 AM #163Banned
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It's a matter of how bad you think the act is.
What if booners photo looked like a 12 year old and he posted barely legal! And someone responded, man that girl looks 12, and he "played along" with haha yeah, dude, what's 6 years?
The same basic conversation, one completely not socially accepted, the other? Well, you like the pictures, right? You wouldn't want tgem to go away, would you?
Of course, if someone accused another of posting under age girls, they'd be pissed, and not play along with the "joke" because underage girls are taboo.
Sneaky photos on the other hand...
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11-11-2017, 11:17 AM #164features a sintered base
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No, it's not. You're changing the terms now--this isn't what we discussed, and what you responded to. IMO there is nothing inherently wrong with posting a nude shot of someone who is happy to have the photo posted. So there is no issue of this being 'bad.'
What if booners photo looked like a 12 year old and he posted barely legal! And someone responded, man that girl looks 12, and he "played along" with haha yeah, dude, what's 6 years?
The same basic conversation, one completely not socially accepted, the other? Well, you like the pictures, right? You wouldn't want tgem to go away, would you?
re-read it, and if I understand you then you're wrong on this as well--I would very much like photos taken of people who didn't know they were being photographed to go away. And the people taking those photos should figure out that it's not cool--but the photos simply reflect something in those people that made them think that something like that is OK.
Of course, if someone accused another of posting under age girls, they'd be pissed, and not play along with the "joke" because underage girls are taboo.
Sneaky photos on the other hand...[quote][//quote]
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11-11-2017, 11:21 AM #165Banned
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All I did was replace one "looks like" with another looks like.
One, completely taboo. You can find 18 year olds that look 12 and 12 year olds that look 18.
The other... nude pictures of women posted online without their permission.... sure, you will say it's not ok if pressed, but will you take a stand?
Both hard to tell for sure..
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11-11-2017, 11:32 AM #166
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11-11-2017, 11:32 AM #167
it should be astonishing anybody would defend the obvious overall treatment of women on this board but it's not.
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11-11-2017, 11:41 AM #168
Probably...
It seems like there are some hard truths in need of collective reckoning....one of which is that evolution kind of favors some forms of barbarism, one of which is a rapey/molesty kind of barbarism. Some of the popular cliffs notes discourse of evolution does this no favor: "survival of the fittest"...ok...but it's also "who makes the most offspring". It's only been a tiny amount of time since molesty-rapey predatory guys haven't been able to just rampantly impregnate women with relative impunity. To the extent that rapey/molesty is a trait, or series of traits, and those traits are coded...evolution has probably favored it. Which means fighting with it is a lot like fighting with the genes that make us like fat and sugar and salt, it's a fight against our very nature....which is a bummer.
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11-11-2017, 11:47 AM #169
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11-11-2017, 11:48 AM #170Banned
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I'm not so sure it's nature over nurture
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11-11-2017, 11:53 AM #171
there's absolutely no question both are significant...
genetics load the gun, environment pulls the trigger
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11-11-2017, 12:01 PM #172
My wife and I talked about this a bunch the other week...
I think your (women who are sick of this shit) biggest issue should be with the women who encourage it. As a mellow, nice guy raised by women, and traumatized by having to see my mom threatened by awful men at times in my childhood, I've always been the opposite of predatory. I wish I could tell you all the times I had huge crushes on girls and women in my life and they turned me down so they could date barbarians...the exciting barbarians who then treat them like shit.
Half of your gender behaves like they need a man to be mean and sketchy to be attractive, then the other half laments why so many men are mean and sketchy. Ski towns are full of single men, prisons are full of men with women visiting them every week. Go make sense of that.
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11-11-2017, 12:12 PM #173Registered Undead
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So...
Originally Posted by Keyser Söze
Once upon a time, I thought I was paying attention - and would have said much of what you are saying. Having had the "benefit" in recent years of time to pay more attention and to be educated - I've found out I'd only skimmed the thinnest surface of what was going on. It is kind of a bummer.
Interestingly...
Originally Posted by Louis C.K.
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11-11-2017, 12:30 PM #174
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11-11-2017, 12:40 PM #175
fine.
a million years of the rapiest animal passing the most genes to the next generation has no impact whatsoever on our current incarnation. Go with that.
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