I had the phobia for a long time. Had to do with a traumatic experience in the days of 8-track tapes and let's just say that hearing anything by Gordon Lightfoot while in a dentist's chair sends me into a suicidal window dive. It even says NO GORDON LIGHTFOOT on my current chart at the dentist who cured me of my phobia. And his office is on the garden level, which is a nice failsafe just in case.
I was so afraid of the dentist the only way I would ever go would be when I had an emergency similar to your own. I lost three teeth to extractions because when I went in it was much easier for me to say, "Just pull the tooth and get me out of here." It got to the point where it was not very easy for me to chew lots of kinds of food and I kept having other emergencies and painful experiences that reinforced my phobia.
What turned it around for me? My wife patiently explained to me that if I went into my old age still losing teeth, my quality of life would really suck. She helped me to understand that having a full head of teeth is a major health benefit. I found a dentist who is very gentle and nurturing. It helped a lot that he is a bit of an armchair mountaineer and also a tele skier and loves to talk to me about my misanthropic lifestyle. So I started on a program of repairing and stabilizing my teeth that took more than two years. I now have root canals and crowns in 8 teeth and three bridges. It cost a lot of money even with company-paid dental insurance, but I am also healthier at age 50 than I have ever been. I still don't like going to the dentist, but I sack up and do it because I like having good teeth. Just a cautionary tale.
If you go for the extraction, don't wait too long before finding a way to afford the implant or the bridge that will restore your bite. In the long run it will be worth it. It will cost a lot more than a single tooth root canal but should also last a lot longer
I boiled my thermometer, and sure enough, this spot, which purported to be two thousand feet higher than the locality of the hotel, turned out to be nine thousand feet LOWER. Thus the fact was clearly demonstrated that, ABOVE A CERTAIN POINT, THE HIGHER A POINT SEEMS TO BE, THE LOWER IT ACTUALLY IS. Our ascent itself was a great achievement, but this contribution to science was an inconceivably greater matter.
--MT--
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