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    Has anything good come out of a Sugar Daddy arrangement?

    Our best ski partner just got himself a sugar baby, and I'm... conflicted.

    He went on a "mutual beneficial dating" website and is in 2 weeks deep with a Master's Degree student from the local university.

    I can't say I know any sugar daddies except him, but he's dumb asf when it comes to his track record of getting robbed by women he barely knows.

    I've actually, however, gotten to know a handful of sugar baby ladies quite well.

    And u know what, they're dumb asf too cuz it's always some bullshit with them chicks cuz they're programmed to scam and manipulate their boyfriends so they're trying to scam and manipulate their friends too. It's so annoying cuz obviously I can see thru their cons cuz duh they are openly conning their sugar daddy! Blowing their allowance on stupid shit when they ought to be paying their half of the rent on time and not ugly crying every other month to him to me to everyone with some sorry ass excuse for not getting a damn job.

    These people just just break up and get back together when they need more money or attention - over and over for years. Even if if wasn't a sugar arrangement, it's still toxic as hell.

    And just like, ski partner homeboy won't listen when I tell him this is gonna hurt his chances to get the loving wife that he says really truly longs for. He's not even a bad dude! He can find someone nice if he made half an honest attempt at it.

    Am I being judgy tho???

    Have yall actually ever seen one of these arrangements work out?? Or does it always just blow up their faces and leave both parties with less self worth than they started with?

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    Just legalize prostitution already.
    /thread

    It works out great for everyone.

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    Meh. I don’t think it’s sex with hotties.

    It’s more about narcissistic wealthy sociopathic males wanting a fancy car, watch and wife.

    But. It’s a mutual agreement. Foolish though it seems to most.

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    Iíve heard its normal in France for men to have a mistress, in addition to a wife.

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    Quote Originally Posted by billyk View Post
    Iíve heard its normal in France for men to have a mistress, in addition to a wife.
    I heard it was normal everywhere for guys girls and non binary pals.
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    I swear to god you guys are all boring white married males who think pornhub and getting laid once a month and who haven't had a good time since sophmore year in in college is an ok life

    nothing wrong with being a sugar daddy it'll cost you money but whats money
    don't get attached
    be firm
    know when to say when with doling out the money and gifts always do the sex to cash ratio when she want's a new patagonia jacket
    everything is blowjobs to dollars conversion
    let her party with her friends you don't want to hang out with twenty somethings she'll probably find a boyfriend or have a ton of guys flailing all over her too but he'll be broke as fuck so she'll always come back to daddy
    watch out for the homeless heidi's next thing you know she's moved into your spare bedroom and it'll take months to get her out the sex will dry up and she'll be a total bitch but then she'll come back randomly a couple months later you'll fuck the shit out of her then realize she has to go and she'll get pissed again

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    I believe op was talking about the female effects. Sure, there’s no downside for the old fart. Same as prostitution.

    It does, however, have ramifications for the young women. In both instances.

    It’s sad that modern feminism justifies both sugar daddy slutting as well as old school prostitution.
    Young women would have lower standard of living finding a normal man closer to their age.
    Hell, they might even have kids and end up more broke. But then again the life might be more satisfying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fastfred View Post
    I swear to god you guys are all boring white married males who think pornhub and getting laid once a month and who haven't had a good time since sophmore year in in college is an ok life
    Donít kink shame me!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Core Shot View Post
    Meh. I donít think itís sex with hotties.

    Itís more about narcissistic wealthy sociopathic males wanting a fancy car, watch and wife.

    But. Itís a mutual agreement. Foolish though it seems to most.
    I think it's that he craves chaos and self destruction in his life and that he's never gotten over his high school girlfriend (we're all still friends) and is just biding his time with totally insane chicks until he can win her back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by billyk View Post
    Iíve heard its normal in France for men to have a mistress, in addition to a wife.
    French maid?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MakersTeleMark View Post
    I heard it was normal everywhere for guys girls and non binary pals.


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    sugar baby melons squeeze before you buy on the honor system. saw this sign after reading this thread and had to bring one home


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    Quote Originally Posted by fastfred View Post
    I swear to god you guys are all boring white married males who think pornhub and getting laid once a month and who haven't had a good time since sophmore year in in college is an ok life

    nothing wrong with being a sugar daddy it'll cost you money but whats money
    don't get attached
    be firm
    know when to say when with doling out the money and gifts always do the sex to cash ratio when she want's a new patagonia jacket
    everything is blowjobs to dollars conversion
    let her party with her friends you don't want to hang out with twenty somethings she'll probably find a boyfriend or have a ton of guys flailing all over her too but he'll be broke as fuck so she'll always come back to daddy
    watch out for the homeless heidi's next thing you know she's moved into your spare bedroom and it'll take months to get her out the sex will dry up and she'll be a total bitch but then she'll come back randomly a couple months later you'll fuck the shit out of her then realize she has to go and she'll get pissed again
    sounds like the voice of bitter experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fastfred View Post
    I swear to god you guys are all boring white married males who think pornhub and getting laid once a month and who haven't had a good time since sophmore year in in college is an ok life

    nothing wrong with being a sugar daddy it'll cost you money but whats money
    don't get attached
    be firm
    know when to say when with doling out the money and gifts always do the sex to cash ratio when she want's a new patagonia jacket
    everything is blowjobs to dollars conversion
    let her party with her friends you don't want to hang out with twenty somethings she'll probably find a boyfriend or have a ton of guys flailing all over her too but he'll be broke as fuck so she'll always come back to daddy
    watch out for the homeless heidi's next thing you know she's moved into your spare bedroom and it'll take months to get her out the sex will dry up and she'll be a total bitch but then she'll come back randomly a couple months later you'll fuck the shit out of her then realize she has to go and she'll get pissed again
    Hopefully your daughter is enjoying the benefits of such a wonderful relationship

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    Quote Originally Posted by Core Shot View Post
    I believe op was talking about the female effects...
    >>...wrong...<<
    ☆"Our best ski partner just got himself a sugar baby, and I'm... conflicted".☆

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    Quote Originally Posted by altacoup View Post
    Hopefully your daughter is enjoying the benefits of such a wonderful relationship
    Saves monumental bank on Tuition...
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    and its less work than stripping
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    Worked out pretty well for Melania (except for hard duty riding the carrot stalk)
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    Quote Originally Posted by TurxSki View Post
    >>...wrong...<<
    ☆"Our best ski partner just got himself a sugar baby, and I'm... conflicted".☆

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    Reread op and yeah I missed that he’s the daddy.

    In that case he should ride the tiger and have lots of fun. But watch out and don’t get too serious.

    Sugar babies are usually messed up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Core Shot View Post
    Meh. I donít think itís sex with hotties.

    Itís more about narcissistic wealthy sociopathic males wanting a fancy car, watch and wife.

    But. Itís a mutual agreement. Foolish though it seems to most.
    Thinking about this a bit. I think what makes these things "arrangements" is that one of them is scamming and manipulating.

    Either the dude is scamming the chick because he is the manipulator and she's desperate...

    Or the chick is scamming the dude because she is the manipulator and he's desperate.

    If there wasn't scamming and manipulation, and the feelings were sincere and mutual, they'd just be in a relationship with an age gap and one person being the breadwinner

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    Quote Originally Posted by fastfred View Post
    I swear to god you guys are all boring white married males who think pornhub and getting laid once a month and who haven't had a good time since sophmore year in in college is an ok life

    nothing wrong with being a sugar daddy it'll cost you money but whats money
    don't get attached
    be firm
    know when to say when with doling out the money and gifts always do the sex to cash ratio when she want's a new patagonia jacket
    everything is blowjobs to dollars conversion
    let her party with her friends you don't want to hang out with twenty somethings she'll probably find a boyfriend or have a ton of guys flailing all over her too but he'll be broke as fuck so she'll always come back to daddy
    watch out for the homeless heidi's next thing you know she's moved into your spare bedroom and it'll take months to get her out the sex will dry up and she'll be a total bitch but then she'll come back randomly a couple months later you'll fuck the shit out of her then realize she has to go and she'll get pissed again
    Do your sugar arrangements ever make you feel more fulfilled tho? Like real love does?

    Or do you think they affect your emotions and life so you cant have a normal relationship anymore?

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    And does it affect your ability to go skiing once or twice a month with your friends???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Core Shot View Post
    Reread op and yeah I missed that heís the daddy.

    In that case he should ride the tiger and have lots of fun. But watch out and donít get too serious.

    Sugar babies are usually messed up.
    That's what I'll tell him.

    "FINE BRO ride the tiger and try not to get hurt"

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    Quote Originally Posted by larilinesign View Post
    Do your sugar arrangements ever make you feel more fulfilled tho? Like real love does?

    Or do you think they affect your emotions and life so you cant have a normal relationship anymore?
    WTF? are you twenty four years old and have this happy great optimistic view on your future? did the doc pump you full of lithium? hate to be the bad guy but I don't know many people who have a "normal relationship" you got a girl she's gonna want from you and your gonna pay just had a meeting this morning with a client to give perspective we are talking about over a million dollars so everything we do has a number next to it husband says "the majority stake holder out votes the minority stake holder" I guess that's a normal relationship?

    and real love? fulfilling? dude it's saturday

    Quote Originally Posted by larilinesign View Post
    And does it affect your ability to go skiing once or twice a month with your friends???
    wtf is wrong with you? I do whatever I want whenever I want took tuesday off went to denver and got a rub and tug had a nice lunch went shopping
    I ski and or ride a bike five days a week bong hits in the morning ipas in the evening
    figure out your priorties in life there can't be that many freds in this world and those that are live a good life

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    Quote Originally Posted by billyk View Post
    I’ve heard its normal in France for men to have a mistress, in addition to a wife.
    LOL my wife said I could get a girlfriend but I couldn't spend any money on her. Like WTF no chick is going to want to hang out with me for my looks.

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