so I know a lot of mags here have gone thru this and there are a some posts related to this, but not a single thread for advice.
past live - uber fun w tons of travels for biking and skiing and well, maybe selfish pursuits...but amazing. hard rides or tours kept me sane
new post married and toddler life - no endorphins, no adrenaline, building new business, super out of shape, nothing like even pre marriage dating life..make up excuses and basically stuff on couch 'planning'. lack of hard rides and skiing driving me batty.
so, which one is it?
suck it up buttercup
I'm doing wrong
the 1st year sucks, it's all up hill
shoot me in the nads now, it's all downhill..
There has to be some good advice floating around this place..
never in my sub 50 years have I been so beat up...just part of the gig? mentally the lack riding or getting after it has to be the worst part.
I hear I'm an amazing father, so there's that, but that isn't help me yet...
what say the collective?
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