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04-23-2019, 06:27 PM #126
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04-23-2019, 06:45 PM #127
Oh God, no. No kid + hangover scenario. No thank you. Firm pass.
And it's fucking sneaky. You're older. You probably don't have the tolerance or metabolism you did at 22. I'm good for a hangover at like 3 strong drinks these days. Youve got to quit a drink earlier than you think you need to if you're getting the 6 AM preschool wake-up call.
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04-23-2019, 07:22 PM #128
Full disclosure. I smoked and drank most of the day, every day through college and grad school and managed to stay out of trouble for the most part. I partied almost every day well in to my 30s. It's all good until you have kids... or until you're tired of being that old wasted dude you used to laugh at when you were younger. Not saying anyone has to go straight edge with kids. You can still smoke and drink every day and be a great parent. Just not a good idea to get "shitfaced" as mentioned when your kids are around... Not a single good reason do be shitfaced around your children regardless of their age. 2-3 drinks and a couple puffs, no big deal. Hard drinking and wheelchair weed not so much..
Go that way really REALLY fast. If something gets in your way, TURN!
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04-23-2019, 07:33 PM #129
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04-23-2019, 07:35 PM #130Registered User
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04-23-2019, 08:46 PM #131
Fortunately, when bad shit happens, your adrenaline straightens you up quite a bit if you're not too wasted to start with. Single folks can relate just by the way seeing the cop lights coming up behind you can shock you straight. When your kid or spouse is in trouble and you have to step up to handle things that adrenaline flows even stronger.
Go that way really REALLY fast. If something gets in your way, TURN!
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04-23-2019, 08:56 PM #132
SomeFuckinJong comes full circle on one page. Well done.
Edit: two pages, nevertheless...
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04-23-2019, 09:34 PM #133
FWIW, after 3 month of the EASY cycle, my wife and I were able to bike and ski (XC) with our little lady quite well. It wasn’t until she was about 4 that she was mobile enough to not enjoy being dragged behind in the chariot, but was too slow and easily distracted to allow us to set a proper exercise pace. Our girl will be 7 this fall and is starting to pick up speed (or is it her aging parents are slowing down) enough that we are getting back on track. But it definitely took a few years of trial, error, and sacrifice to allow either of us our needed rec time. My job and volunteerism allows a bit more aerobic activity, so most of the extracurricular rec consideration went to my nurse wife. She is still hot for my slight ‘Dad bod’, and supported her keeping fit and trim. Win-win!
But I do have some catch-up to do, which only gets harder I’m told in the 5th decade and beyond.
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04-24-2019, 06:48 AM #134
All boils down to if you're going to do it, do it responsibly. Don't be too shitfaced to drive or deal with cops because you can suddenly find yourself in that situation and as a parent the stakes are a lot higher. Not cool to get shitfaced with kids around even if your spouse isn't.
Go that way really REALLY fast. If something gets in your way, TURN!
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04-24-2019, 07:55 AM #135it just depends
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04-24-2019, 07:58 AM #136Registered User
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as good as it gets aka new parent / self mid life - sage mag advice needed!
Deleted my post. I’m a non/light drinker that can’t take more preaching from Jong
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04-24-2019, 08:23 AM #137
I'm fascinated by the nature vs. nurture thing with parenting. One of the guys I played baseball with in college grew up with a single drug addict mom, and had a step sister who was a prostitute. He was the nicest guy, graduated college, got a great job after graduation.
I know parents who are great people and the kids are jerks, and vice versa. I figure I'm just gonna play it safe and not do weird or illegal stuff in front of my kid."timberridge is terminally vapid" -- a fortune cookie in Yueyang
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04-24-2019, 08:23 AM #138
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04-24-2019, 08:26 AM #139Registered User
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04-24-2019, 09:46 AM #140
I keep narcan in my glove box in case I gotta sober up quick when the meteor hits.
Always ready.
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04-24-2019, 09:48 AM #141
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04-24-2019, 09:53 AM #142
as good as it gets aka new parent / self mid life - sage mag advice needed!
+1
That said I believe my children have driven me to drink more often but also mandated more reasonable volume consumption per occurrence. Beer is awesome and helps improve my mood and enjoyment around the kids. ... or just helps me indulge in some relaxed downtime once they are asleep.
I get I’m not supposed to get shit canned and drive them around or get black out smashed and pass out on the floor by their monitor.Last edited by Doremite; 04-24-2019 at 11:00 AM.
Uno mas
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04-24-2019, 10:54 AM #143Registered User
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Don't parent on ambien then, my wife won't fucking wake up to anything with that shit.
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04-24-2019, 01:02 PM #145
^Ha! Can’t wait until my kids are that helpful. Now they can just slosh milk all over the floor as they “help” clear the table.
Uno mas
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04-25-2019, 01:10 PM #146
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04-25-2019, 05:06 PM #147
I'll never forget one time before our 2 year old could really even talk he knew that cleaning up the room could get him something sweet. He came in to the living room and waved for me to come to the nursery he shared with the baby. Went in there and the round plastic toy bin tub was completely buried with toys and trash and a bunch of other shit but the rest of the room looked great. I laughed so hard, then got him some candy.
Go that way really REALLY fast. If something gets in your way, TURN!
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04-28-2019, 09:37 AM #148Registered User
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Again, great thread and thanks for sharing personal info. a lot of great stories and strategies!
In fact, ive been out the past 3 days (road bike 2 hours Thur, backcounty snowmobile day Friday with a group, and then a mtb trip to Salida yesterday). Each day, i made sure the reciprocate the time for the wife. The fam came with to Salida and walked around for a couple hours shopping, then lunch along the river...win win all the way around.
seems like common sense now, but really thought it was not cool to keep getting out. learned otherwise.
this thread should be referenced for all to be dads/athletes...
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04-28-2019, 09:50 AM #149
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04-28-2019, 01:31 PM #150
Or two at the same time like I did.
Twins will break the average man.
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