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    The Pending Divorce Thread

    Figured we need a place to discuss how much we love being married.

    I'll go first...


    I find that I can barely stand my wife most of the time now. If it weren't for the huge hit my wallet would take, I'd be out.

    We have kids, which is what I've always thought would keep us together. Now it's my bank account I'm worried about...I can't afford her bleeding me dry.

    She's dumb,(really, not just saying that out of anger) and insecure because of it. This is the cause of every single issue I have with her. It's unbelievable the amount of trouble her insecurity creates.

    I don't even give a fuck anymore really. I just drink and ignore her most of the time. I don't care to do nice things for her at all anymore.

    Right now, after the behavior she just exhibited...again, I'm ready to either drown her or myself in the bathroom sink.

    Cheers!




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    Sorry bro. Vibes. My marriage isn't great but I think we will work it out.
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    Try stop wasting your dick wacking-off to porn for a month OR two and see what happens?

    You might actually find you like her when she is acting dumb?

    Women with kids are not always perfect. When you fail as a husband, you fail as a father.

    Equality is for suckers.


    Quote Originally Posted by booner View Post
    Figured we need a place to discuss how much we love being married.

    I'll go first...


    I find that I can barely stand my wife most of the time now. If it weren't for the huge hit my wallet would take, I'd be out.

    We have kids, which is what I've always thought would keep us together. Now it's my bank account I'm worried about...I can't afford her bleeding me dry.

    She's dumb,(really, not just saying that out of anger) and insecure because of it. This is the cause of every single issue I have with her. It's unbelievable the amount of trouble her insecurity creates.

    I don't even give a fuck anymore really. I just drink and ignore her most of the time. I don't care to do nice things for her at all anymore.

    Right now, after the behavior she just exhibited...again, I'm ready to either drown her or myself in the bathroom sink.

    Cheers!




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    hang in there booner- not fun stuff to be having on your mind all the time

    I'm perplexed by the money thing though.
    Guess I have been poor before so it doesn't hold me back bc I know I will always make it back- especially when you are a HAPPIER person- you just do everything better

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    You have yet to see the worst side of her. Hate to say it.

    Refuse divorce, rent a couch in a ski town and claim that you are doing seasonal work, and bang all the chicks on the dl you'd like? You're "doing what you can to work things out."
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    Sounds shitty.

    Just start watching porn whenever she is around. She'll get the point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by guroo270 View Post
    You have yet to see the worst side of her. Hate to say it.

    Refuse divorce, rent a couch in a ski town and claim that you are doing seasonal work, and bang all the chicks on the dl you'd like? You're "doing what you can to work things out."
    I like where your head's at


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    Quote Originally Posted by booner View Post
    Figured we need a place to discuss how much we love being married.

    I'll go first...


    I find that I can barely stand my wife most of the time now. If it weren't for the huge hit my wallet would take, I'd be out.

    We have kids, which is what I've always thought would keep us together. Now it's my bank account I'm worried about...I can't afford her bleeding me dry.

    She's dumb,(really, not just saying that out of anger) and insecure because of it. This is the cause of every single issue I have with her. It's unbelievable the amount of trouble her insecurity creates.

    I don't even give a fuck anymore really. I just drink and ignore her most of the time. I don't care to do nice things for her at all anymore.

    Right now, after the behavior she just exhibited...again, I'm ready to either drown her or myself in the bathroom sink.

    Cheers!

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    damn.... I am uncertain which way to approach you on this, but first and foremost, if you can say that, you are obviously showing it, so ya, she may be a bit insecure with you.
    We all go through difficult times, I did about 15 years ago. We had grown apart and I was certain she was bangin someone else. Whatever, we were able to get it back together and I love her very much. YRMV.
    You are the man of the house and you need to either get the family shit together or let it go. It isn't good for anyone if you feel that way and subsequently treat her shitty. Your kids don't deserve to live in that type of environment. They need two solid examples in their lives,
    Time to man up Booner.
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    I think you'd have an easier time understanding people if you remembered that 80% of them are fucking morons.
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    That's funny...for a long time I was in almost the same boat as you...but I was too poor to get divorced. Now I'm much richer...and not just in a monetary sense.


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    Quote Originally Posted by baby bear View Post
    hang in there booner- not fun stuff to be having on your mind all the time

    I'm perplexed by the money thing though.
    Guess I have been poor before so it doesn't hold me back bc I know I will always make it back- especially when you are a HAPPIER person- you just do everything better
    I have to quote and counter myself though bc I don't have childrens to worry about. That adds a hooge dimension.
    word and peace

    or maybe just try for all the crazy shit in bed you would have never asked your wife for when you respected her? why not?

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    First forget about the money, if you really want out do it and don't be a prick. Be generous and reasonable and approach her that way. If you live in a community property state she deserves and equitable share of your combined net worth, not equal but equitable. Just because you don't like someone doesn't mean you don't have responsibilities to your spouse, you both entered into the arrangement willingly.

    Second you will be happier if you truly want to get away from her no matter how much it costs. If you're reasonable and fair that can be a lot less painful financially.

    I'm speaking from experience, if you want to call it quit put your emotions to the side and treat it like a business decision and try and get her on board, don't be a dick.

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    Hide as much cash as you can.

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    Talking about the mother of your kids as being "dumb and insecure because of being dumb" is fucking retarded, and a bit crazy.......lay off the porn old man.

    Booner, with all the woman hate, the porn, are you sure you are not a closet gay cocksucker?
    Terje was right.

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    New low....
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    Quote Originally Posted by PNWbrit View Post
    New low....
    bullshit. reality is harsh.

    Wacking off to porn everyday and not focusing on your family is the new "father' low.

    Disposable families?
    Terje was right.

    "We're all kooks to somebody else." -Shelby Menzel

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    Quote Originally Posted by DasBlunt View Post
    bullshit. reality is harsh.

    Wacking off to porn everyday and not focusing on your family is the new "father' low.

    Disposable families?
    No... this thread is new low.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PNWbrit View Post
    No... this thread is new low.
    I agree. Be a man for fuck's sake. "hide your cash"? If she were to find out about that the court battle would likely be more expensive than what you're hiding. Also it's fucking childish and selfish and she'd be better off without a "man" like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DasBlunt View Post
    Try stop wasting your dick wacking-off to porn for a month OR two and see what happens?

    You might actually find you like her when she is acting dumb?

    Women with kids are not always perfect. When you fail as a husband, you fail as a father.

    Equality is for suckers.
    Wow! I actually agree with Das Blunt, (kind of).

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    DasCunt continues to be the old low...

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    Does she have an alias on TGR?
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    Yeah, Utah. It's wedged in between Wyoming and Nevada. You've seen pictures of it, right?

    So after 15 years we finally made it to Utah.....


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    This is really going somewhere!

    DB...get a grip.


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    We all know 100% you have nakidd pics of her, post them here and we will see what your best options are.

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    Sorry to read that Booner. Sounds similar to what I had to deal with. I did everything I could until I could do no more. At some point your own sanity is more important.

    Letting someone try to ruin you financially is not great either.

    If you both are beyond counseling it's not worth it to tough it out.

    Vibes and light, the divorce process is bad but if you have to go that route know that one day it gets better.
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    Quote Originally Posted by baby bear View Post
    or maybe just try for all the crazy shit in bed you would have never asked your wife for when you respected her? why not?
    WOW, it took one of the only females on this board to bring up --- DER POOPENHAUSEN !


    While we are being serious, OP really does need to post up nekkid pics of his wife so that we can decide if he should dump her or not...
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    booner, I am sorry to hear you are having a hard time. But as much as you think you can blame the problems in the relatoinship on her (and her insecurity), it really does take two to make a relationship, whether it's a good one or a bad one. You are white, male, and relatively affluent (I'm makingan education guess on the white part, and if you ski and have enough money to worry about what you'd los ein the divorce you're affluent), take control of your life and make it what you want it to be. Stop blaming others.

    that could take a lot of different forms. You could decide that you want to build a better relationship with your wife. Define what that is and make it happen. You've already said she's dumb, so she must be looking for someone to provide some leadership, that's your job. Or you could decide you don't want that realtionship, in which case figure out how you're going to divorce, what's going to happen to hte family finances and what you're going to do to make all of that work out. You married her, it's your job to fix whatever happens when you unmarry her, right? Either way, though, it's up to you.

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