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Thread: The Pending Divorce Thread
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09-17-2015, 08:59 AM #126"One season per year, the gods open the skies, and releases a white, fluffy, pillow on top of the most forbidding mountain landscapes, allowing people to travel over them with ease and relative abandonment of concern for safety. It's incredible."
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09-17-2015, 09:03 AM #127
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"One season per year, the gods open the skies, and releases a white, fluffy, pillow on top of the most forbidding mountain landscapes, allowing people to travel over them with ease and relative abandonment of concern for safety. It's incredible."
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09-17-2015, 09:14 AM #128
I don't know many people who 'deserve' to be yelled at. Maybe we hang out in different crowds, but I stopped hanging out with 12 year olds a long time ago. Someone yells at me, or I yell at someone, I can guarantee you shit turns ugly. Because that's how adults deal with shit! Someone bugs me, VIOLENCE IS THE ANSWER! 'MURICA!
Let me get this straight, you are angry with her for being the person you married, and possibly an improved version? I'm glad you're dealing with this all in a mature manner and, rather than making the mistake of trying to deal with it through therapy (either for just yourself or both of you) or something similar, you've come to the much more reasonable conclusion that it is not the result of your behavior, she is the cause of the problems, and decided to take to the internet to bitch about your wife.
People are smart in different ways, eh? I'm an engineer - logic rules my world. Sometimes I get frustrated by my gf's lack of it (or my perception of her lack of it). She is a therapist - emotions and emotional intelligence rules her world. I can only imagine her frustration at my, far too often, emotional immaturity and lack of emotional 'smartness'. If you married someone who is just truly DUMB with absolutely no redeeming qualities, who is truly the dumb one? If you found her attractive and smart enough to marry her, and by your own admission she has possibly improved since then, how are you naive enough to decide it is only her, or her at all, ruining your marriage/relationship? Sure, relationships are hard. No sh*t. It's how you deal with that that defines you, either as a man or a woman.
I don't care what you do - I don't actually know you - but, you should stop coming on the internet to bitch about your wife. Man the f*ck up and deal with it, one way or the other."...if you're not doing a double flip cork something, skiing spines in Haines, or doing double flip cork somethings off spines in Haines, you're pretty much just gaping."
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09-17-2015, 09:43 AM #129
The Pending Divorce Thread
Ok...couple things...
I should clarify that when I say yell at, I'm talking about a stern knock it off. Not screaming at her.
And yes...she deserved that at the time. Her behavior was off the charts ridiculous and unnecessary. You are coming to a conclusion without even knowing what was going on.
Second, I definitely don't blame her for all the problems that come up, and never said that. You're like the 10th person to assume that.
Third, regarding her being the same person, or even a slightly improved version, sure it's on me to deal with it since I married her. But, you can't see the future, and how you'll react when she's doing something that really pushes your buttons for the millionth time. It becomes harder and harder to handle.
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09-17-2015, 09:46 AM #130
Who knew Dr. Phil had all these aliases here.
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09-17-2015, 10:00 AM #131
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09-17-2015, 10:31 AM #132"fuck off you asshat gaper shit for brains fucktard wanker." - Jesus Christ
"She was tossing her bean salad with the vigor of a Drunken Pop princess so I walked out of the corner and said.... "need a hand?"" - Odin
"everybody's got their hooks into you, fuck em....forge on motherfuckers, drag all those bitches across the goal line with you." - (not so) ill-advised strategy
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09-17-2015, 10:39 AM #133observing free range rude
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09-17-2015, 10:39 AM #134People should learn endurance; they should learn to endure the discomforts of heat and cold, hunger and thirst; they should learn to be patient when receiving abuse and scorn; for it is the practice of endurance that quenches the fire of worldly passions which is burning up their bodies.
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09-17-2015, 11:37 AM #135
What I find ironic, booner is that you're upset because you're smarter than your wife and she's developed an insecurity over it, likely because you've pushed it in her face enough that she's self-conscious to a point of being hurt. So, if you did split and find someone smarter than you, what happens when the new one starts to put that in your face? Are you going to be resentful? Hurt? Insecure?
Keep in mind that the likelihood of finding someone with exactly your intelligence level who enjoys everything you do and agrees with all your opinions who you really want to be with is low odds. There is something that brought you together with your wife that you loved. Find it again. She and your kids deserve at least an effort on your part to get there. Lastly, anyone I know of a higher level of intelligence would know enough to not ridicule others who aren't as smart. Surely you recognize that if you're truly of high intelligence, you're in a relatively small percentage of the population and should have enough respect for other people to not criticize them for something they can't control. An IQ of 140 is approximately 2% of the population. If you're at a high level, the odds of you finding someone of your equal are slim. I don't know your IQ but if it's above median, your odds are less than 50% so grow up and consider your options if you were to leave. Grow a pair and work on your marriage. The grass may not be any greener on the other side of the fence, no matter how much you may romanticize over the idea of finding the perfect mate. Reality dictates that it's not likely so figure out how to overlook shortcomings and make the best of what you have.
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09-17-2015, 12:02 PM #136
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09-17-2015, 12:25 PM #137
^^^ HOLY FUCK !!! ^^^
You better marry her ASAP. You will never find anything hotter than that."Zee damn fat skis are ruining zee piste !" -Oscar Schevlin
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09-17-2015, 12:31 PM #138
And brains & self esteem don't matter, amirite?
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09-17-2015, 12:41 PM #139
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09-17-2015, 03:34 PM #142
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09-17-2015, 04:38 PM #143
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09-17-2015, 05:02 PM #144
noice!
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09-17-2015, 06:29 PM #145Registered User
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just when I thought I was a loser and people told me I made alot of bad decsions in life
I"ll give everyone some advise don't do anything stupid like get married to some fat ugly chick don't have kids why the fuck would anyone have kids and when your 21 you fucked up you shoulda moved to a ski town and said fuck it all it has worked out pretty damn good just get to sit here and laugh at this thread not a problem not a worry not a bother bro think I might pull another tube and head outside for awhile and start betting on snow
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09-17-2015, 06:36 PM #146
I agree
Punctuation is WAY overrated
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09-17-2015, 06:37 PM #147
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09-17-2015, 07:02 PM #148"Zee damn fat skis are ruining zee piste !" -Oscar Schevlin
"Hike up your skirt and grow a dick you fucking crybaby" -what Bunion said to Harry at the top of The Headwaters
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09-17-2015, 07:31 PM #149
truth.
ETA: when we had our first child, some dear relative of my husband got in his ear that he needs to buy me a "birthing gift." And it needs to be in a box from Tiffany's (expensive jewelry for those of you wondering). I am very practical and don't even like to wear my diamond wedding rings much. I have a $5 band that I bought at an art show that I wear usually. But this was early in our marriage and I guess my loving dear husband didn't want to let me down. So imagine my surprise when a little blue box is given to me. Fucking fuck. I'm an accountant. I did the best "oh my god, I LOVE it" that I could muster. Years later I told him he really didn't need to do that. But he has a good heart.
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09-17-2015, 07:35 PM #150
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