Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice

[MakersTeleMark]

If she's reading this I suggest she give up the poopenhousen.
Then post naked pictures here.

This is not the poop smart thread.

[nest]

Looking for a strategy, and all I can come up with is a very stern note

PM Glademaster

[mtngirl79]

Ignore her. Dont call cops unless you absolutely have to...

Just dont respond. Ever. If she really does come to your house ignore her. Dont answer the door. Let her knock. Try to be invisible.

Do not talk to her. Do not respond to emails.

Ignore ignore ignore ignore.

Dont talk to mutual friends that might tell her anything, either.

Any response from you is a reward. No response, no reward.

It will get worse before it gets better and if you fuck up and respond you start back at square 1.

[byates1]

i've enjoyed,

give back



get well!

[iceman]

poo on your door handles

Those are my door handles dammit!

haha

[iceman]

PM Glademaster

gold

[RootSkier]

This thread is a rich fucking tapestry.

[Timberridge]

Currently dealing with a situation where the ex is threatening to come two states over and just show up on my doorstep...

Looking for a strategy...

Don't answer the door?

Btw, how big are the states?

[Meadow Skipper]

This thread is a rich fucking tapestry.

It’s finally reaching its potential.

I recently started seeing a skier chick. A good skier, too. She did the first hitting though, because I was busy feeling sorry for myself. I’m glad I picked up on it. There’s a lesson there probably.

[Bobby Stainless]

What for? Just curious...

Is The Girl and the Fig good? Thinking about going to Peter Cellers too.

[skiJ]

It’s finally reaching its potential.

I recently started seeing a skier chick. A good skier, too. She did the first hitting though, because I was busy feeling sorry for myself. I’m glad I picked up on it. There’s a lesson there probably.

hey, skip. --

(Please) let me know what that lesson is(,) Because if she 'picked you up' because you were "busy feeling sorry for (yourself). " I am not - liking the long-term prospects...

( If you were Just having a brief 'moment' , I ,,, concede., But . )


Good luck... ( it is nice to run with a good skier chick ) Yo (!)

[Meadow Skipper]

hey, skip. --

(Please) let me know what that lesson is(,) Because if she 'picked you up' because you were "busy feeling sorry for (yourself). " I am not - liking the long-term prospects...

( If you were Just having a brief 'moment' , I ,,, concede., But . )


Good luck... ( it is nice to run with a good skier chick ) Yo (!)

The lesson was that, in spite of feeling bad about a lost relationship, Mike should pay attention when women show an interest in him.

I've been 'feeling sorry for myself' and not paying attention because my wife passed away a while ago. I think the skier chick is interested in me for reasons other than that.

[Rideski]

I wrote on the back of my business card, call me for a date and gave it to her.
She said, I've got a boyfriend, .

Never leave physical evidence, counselor.

[Rideski]

I mean, she was madly in love with me .

Which hours of the day?

[XXX-er]

. I think the skier chick is interested in me for reasons other than that.

You must have lead her on to think you owned tools, could and liked to fix things

they go crazy for a guy who gives good home improvement eh

[Meadow Skipper]

You must have lead her on to think you owned tools, could and liked to fix things

I think maybe it was just my tool. <badda-bum>

they go crazy for a guy who gives good home improvement eh

Heh, right on - getting her into ski boots that fit and doing the liner molding myself led to an awesome night. I’m looking forward to mounting some bindings for her, that’ll be crazy. Who knows what’ll happen when it’s firewood cutting time.

[oftpiste]

Tell her in no uncertain terms she is not to come to your house and that you will no longer engage in any communication with her. Mtgrl is right about that one.

Or restraining order.

Currently dealing with a situation where the ex is threatening to come two states over and just show up on my doorstep in a belief that if she in-person professed her undying love and apologies (But, you're the "One"), all the world will be better. I've blocked her phone for 2 weeks, she's done this before, but can't seem to get into her head that it's over (it's been a tumultuous 9 years, I'm done). She's 41, couldn't disconnect with her ex, is dying for children, and I've never trusted her. Granted, I've pulled some dick moves, but nothing core shaking in the trust/commitment department. I've also laid down ultimatums, and followed up on every one of them, as I will this one. Except, this one is, get the fuck away from me.

Looking for a strategy, and all I can come up with is a very stern note on the door to GTFO, and I'll call the cops.

TGR is my only social media, and she knows and stalks my username here, so maybe she will read this post and realize what I've implored her to do: move on. Because I have a busy week, and I just don't need that stress in my life right now, or any more.

Suggestions always appreciated.

[riser4]

If women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy.

[skiJ]

The lesson was that, in spite of feeling bad about a lost relationship, Mike should pay attention when women show an interest in him.

I've been 'feeling sorry for myself' and not paying attention because my wife passed away a while ago. I think the skier chick is interested in me for reasons other than that.

geeze, skip. - I had no - idea (!) I am Sorry about that. …

I see your subsequent posts. ( around here, I hope you are mounting more than bindings... )


Good luck... ( it is still nice to run with a good skier chick ! !! )

[uglymoney]

I think maybe it was just my tool.


Heh, right on - getting her into ski boots that fit and doing the liner molding myself led to an awesome night. I’m looking forward to mounting some bindings for her, that’ll be crazy. Who knows what’ll happen when it’s firewood cutting time.

TR once you get it split.

[mtngirl79]

Tell her in no uncertain terms she is not to come to your house and that you will no longer engage in any communication with her. Mtgrl is right about that one.

Or restraining order.

A restraining order usually just makes the crazy crazier... any attention is good attention.

By all means tell her one last time, you are done and want no more contact with her if you havent all ready but what you really have to do is ignore and lock your shit down so she gets no reward.

Any response, even a negative response is a reward. No reward. She will get bored eventually.

[ill-advised strategy]

Looking for a strategy

This relationship isn’t working, it’s not going to work. I’m sorry for that, we did our best. I love you and I want you to be happy, so the sooner we can go from whatever this stage is to the point where we’re happily separated and moving on with our lives, the better for us both. You deserve a relationship that works better than this, and so do I.

Use any or all of that. Then continue to create space.

[iceman]

Maybe watch Home Alone a couple times for tips on defensive measures.

[fastfred]

whats the difference between a chick and a washing machine
the washing machine doesn't follow you around after you put your load in it

[Rideski]

Or Fatal Attraction