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03-25-2019, 04:14 PM #3376
At least she splitboards. Although that does change your travel strategy a bit.
I didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.
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03-25-2019, 04:18 PM #3377
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03-25-2019, 05:17 PM #3378
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03-25-2019, 05:31 PM #3379
Mike, here’s my heartfelt wish for strength, peace, and love everlasting for you. Time heals, it really does.
Yr friend,
MS
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03-25-2019, 05:47 PM #3380
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03-25-2019, 06:06 PM #3381
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03-25-2019, 06:25 PM #3382
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03-25-2019, 07:33 PM #3383Registered User
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this is the best thread out there
so much to look forward to so much bullshit to wade through
I've gained plenty from reading it, hope everyone else does
you end at such a shitty low point, the trick and the hard part is digging out and moving on
make sure you laugh at yourself and try to be a better person, it sounds so easy but it's the hardest thing
and make sure that the future is better
cause you'll have your hands down some chicks pants and you'll whisper something stupid like
"it's so smooth" and she will mention how all the hair has been laser removed down there
hell once existed and you will then know your in heaven
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03-25-2019, 07:39 PM #3384Banned
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Well if it wasn't the best thread before, it certainly is now.
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03-25-2019, 07:47 PM #3385
^ it's like that and this and like that and uh^
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03-25-2019, 07:57 PM #3386
Very cool you found a friend of the female persuasion. It makes a nice difference and helps sooth things.
1. Do not share lawyers with your STBEW. It's normal for a lawyer to be a mediator, but you still need someone with only your interests in mind. Seriously. This is important.
2. Be a little careful about the dating thing until the divorce is done, specially around Owen. If she's being rough on you now, she might have the capacity to use your dating against you when it comes to custody/visitation/support arrangements.
It shouldn't be this way, but make no assumptions that rational behavior will prevail. I know that's not what you want to hear. I didn't either. I should have listened when told.
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03-25-2019, 07:59 PM #3387
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03-25-2019, 08:34 PM #3388"fuck off you asshat gaper shit for brains fucktard wanker." - Jesus Christ
"She was tossing her bean salad with the vigor of a Drunken Pop princess so I walked out of the corner and said.... "need a hand?"" - Odin
"everybody's got their hooks into you, fuck em....forge on motherfuckers, drag all those bitches across the goal line with you." - (not so) ill-advised strategy
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03-25-2019, 09:07 PM #3389Registered User
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up here both sides must have independent advice,
if your agreement is ever questioned in court and there was no independent advice on both sides ... you might be fuckedLee Lau - xxx-er is the laziest Asian canuck I know
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03-25-2019, 09:09 PM #3390
I have my crack Maggot legal team. And my sister. And a couple of other lawyer types.
I didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.
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03-25-2019, 09:19 PM #3391
Thanks y’all.
We’ve been doing this social media thing with TelemarkTips and TGR since before it was called social media. (I wasn’t on Powder Mag forums.) We’ve created quite a community, a family of friends. My life is indeed richer because of this place and you people.
spread love
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rub it inI didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.
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03-26-2019, 07:07 AM #3392
Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
It’s true, but you have to be happy on your own as well.
One thing I learnt in my marriage, and now with this single mother that totally fucked me up last January, is that when their are kids, there is little left for you. If you’ve got issues, no one can afford to help you, and even the in-laws and friends start kicking you under the bus “for the kids”. Then when shit goes wrong for you, it just compounds because they start worrying about everyone but you. I’m convinced a man can’t show his weaknesses in this world.
I’ve developed tinnitus in my ears these last two months, probably from stress, Dog dieing, woman going insane, and kids generally needing me less. It went full blown on my ski trip last week with my son in Co. couldn’t even enjoy that.
I’m getting my own shit together, getting healthy again, and going to be a selfish dude through my 50’s. If I can gigalo a little bit on the side, that would be great.
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03-26-2019, 09:08 AM #3393Registered User
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hope all you recently divorced people have a smooth divorce process as I did.
If your ex keeps trying to argue, just ignore.
Otherwise, dating sucks so ski more.I ski the east.
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03-26-2019, 09:09 AM #3394Registered User
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03-26-2019, 11:46 AM #3395
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03-26-2019, 11:57 AM #3396
While I believe that most rational people eventually will figure out how to get along after the wounds heal, I most definitely believe in getting a good attorney and listening to them during the divorce process. I didn't listen as well as I should have- I was a lot more generous than I had to be and I regret that a little. In the middle of all of the guilt and pain you don't make sound decisions.
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03-26-2019, 12:04 PM #3397
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03-26-2019, 01:34 PM #3398
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03-26-2019, 01:38 PM #3399
The most devastating systemic lesson for me, and granted, mine was sadly not a collaborative situation in any way, is that if either party is in any way irrational, untruthful or otherwise not particularly interested in justice, the whole shebang boils down to who has the deepest pockets to keep paying their lawyer.
It wasn't me.
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03-30-2019, 12:58 PM #3400Registered User
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Wife seems to think that I'm still trying to make things work. I'm not. I really accepted that we're done and I need to move on. Felt like a weight had been lifted. Now I am trying to get along with her until I can sort things out.
It sounds like general consensus is to lawyer up. She has said that she doesn't want to do that and that we can figure it out between us.
My biggest fear is her trying to take the kids out of the country. I don't think she would be so irrational, but who knows.
That irrationality could be heightened if I get a lawyer.
I've also read somewhere in this thread that I can't leave the house or the courts will view that as abandonment? So, I have to get her to kick me out? That would be easy. Or, do I just need to wait for all that until we have an agreement?
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