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08-07-2021, 12:22 PM #4851
Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
I ski 135 degree chutes switch to the road.
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08-07-2021, 02:48 PM #4852
Helping my buddy move his shit out today. He has 8 scheduled hours to move out while the woman and kids are out of the house. Nothing is packed, no plan, and he is trying to reasonably take what is his. Fuck this is depressing.
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08-07-2021, 03:10 PM #4853
Take her sex toys.
Is it radix panax notoginseng? - splat
This is like hanging yourself but the rope breaks. - DTM
Dude Listen to mtm. He's a marriage counselor at burning man. - subtle plague
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08-07-2021, 03:17 PM #4854
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08-07-2021, 05:28 PM #4855
......and not at all uncommon. Accusations I couldn't fathom were thrown at me and thankfully didn't gain any traction. The standard form that gets served (in WA at least) has a restraining order line-item which could lead a casual observer (or angry human) think it's a normal part of the process.
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08-07-2021, 05:32 PM #4856
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08-07-2021, 10:43 PM #4857
Same. The good thing in the long run (for me at least) is that all of the wives in our social circle knew she was full of shit and have basically shut her out since then, even long after this was all over. I still get invited everywhere we used to and she’s fully excluded. Nice to see some consequences for someone behaving in such a manner.
Moral of the story is to try to keep your cool. It can be so difficult.I ski 135 degree chutes switch to the road.
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08-08-2021, 09:43 PM #4858
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08-09-2021, 04:18 AM #4859
Not to disparage your friend, but…huh?
What’s wrong with that guy? Reading back a few posts up to this taking flowers with him (unless they have a grow lab)…You need to give him a smack upside the head and a bottle of bourbon!
(I say this as a recent divorcee who’s ex-wife fucked her best friend’s spouse…blamed me for it…then called the cops and made up a story about how I pushed her (causing injury) to have me arrested (I wasn’t…bc I didn’t do anything))
Sent from my iPad using TGR ForumsIt makes perfect sense...until you think about it.
I suspect there's logic behind the madness, but I'm too dumb to see it.
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08-09-2021, 05:11 AM #4860I drink it up
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Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
^^^ I’d have to agree. There’s enough shit to argue about, and he’d be well advised to save his fights for the things that matter. If he’s lawyered up (like he should be) he’s literally paying for prolonging and embittering the battle.
I decided fairly early on that my ex wasn’t worth fighting with. She doesn’t rank that high on my list and everything is strictly transactional. Doesn’t mean she doesn’t try to bring the fight to me (even still), but the few things I regret during the time leading up to and after my divorce were literally all the handful of times where I said what I thought or provoked a fight over some silly material thing rather than restrict it to what needed to be said or done. At a basic level, she isn’t an honest person, and I’m not going to fix her narcissistic-leaning BPD or score meaningful points in any game I actually care about.
Props to you for being there for your friend. When I went through this a few years ago I don’t know how I would have gotten through it without the support of a few close friends. Still makes me all misty.focus.
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08-09-2021, 07:31 AM #4861
For context it was like 3 clumps of non-blooming flowers and they are planning to put the house on the market asap. He left a ton of stuff in the house that he was entitled to after she used the nuclear option on him the day before. Let the man have a few dollars worth of flowers.
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08-09-2021, 07:41 AM #4862
Thanks. Seeing your full-grown man best friend break down and start crying like his 3 year old is a hard thing to watch. But glad I could help him finally get on with his life. I can't imagine being in a years long cage match. I've definitely had marriage FOMO over the years but fuck if I didn't feel content with being a bachelor after Saturday.
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08-09-2021, 09:29 AM #4863
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08-10-2021, 11:09 AM #4864
did someone say Tammy Wynette?!?
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09-11-2021, 09:13 PM #4865Registered User
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I deserve to feel happy.
Gotta start exploring how to protect my assets and how to best navigate the path forward. I am bummed. I am the one calling for a split but things have been broken for years.
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09-12-2021, 05:58 AM #4866Banned
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Much luck mag
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09-12-2021, 06:30 PM #4867
Whats happening Jonger? Be careful with assets. As tempting as it is to hide shit you can get even more royally fucked than a normal divorce will make you feel. No-fault state?
And yes, you do deserve to feel happy and chances are you will again eventually.
Holler if you need an ear.
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09-12-2021, 07:10 PM #4868Registered User
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No fault state and no real faults but man oh man why did I think buying a home together would help things?! It is just not something that I want to do any more.
Probably should not talk to a nonTGR lawyer ;-)
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11-18-2021, 07:34 PM #4869Registered User
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Fucking sucks, but better than having to give a list to a third party with enough detail to get the stuff you want and need and also remember where everything is so they can get it, even if the STBX isn't attempting to prevent the third party from getting the stuff.
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11-19-2021, 05:23 PM #4870
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12-07-2021, 06:28 PM #4871Registered User
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Anyone got a good way to get a realistic fair-market value on skis? STBX estimated my ski gear collection at about twice what I'm guessing. The older stuff isn't that hard to value (search eBay, sideline swap, etc); current-year and previous-year stuff is proving a bit more challenging. I can obviously find current new pricing, but that's not particularly helpful (and I don't think I can just quote the standard Gear Swap guidelines, as entertaining as it might be to try to claim TGR as a source of expert knowledge in court).
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12-07-2021, 06:36 PM #4872Is it radix panax notoginseng? - splat
This is like hanging yourself but the rope breaks. - DTM
Dude Listen to mtm. He's a marriage counselor at burning man. - subtle plague
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12-07-2021, 06:52 PM #4873
Any bindings that aren’t indemnified you should list at zero since they effectively can’t be remounted or worked on
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12-07-2021, 06:57 PM #4874
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12-08-2021, 12:23 AM #4875
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