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02-17-2020, 07:32 PM #4476
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02-17-2020, 07:34 PM #4477Registered User
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yeah keep yer mouth shut on the consoling cuz you may have to eat your words
Lee Lau - xxx-er is the laziest Asian canuck I know
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02-17-2020, 08:20 PM #4478
In the past 4 months, 4 couples in our close circle have split up. All with kids, 3 of them with kids under 10. I am so done with this shit. Wife is still out helping the 'closer half' get their life back together, but I am done. All have been parents going through mid life shit, fucking around with the (small) town sluts, feeling sorry for themselves, or wishing their partner was anything other than what they have been since they first hooked up. None have mental health issues, and have reasonably successful careers. I've got no sympathy left. Life sucks sometime. We all make sacrifices, and marriage is about compromise. At least until the dependants leave the house. I'm not investing another moment on whiny entitled adults. The only help I will offer anymore is to take the kids during my normal share of childminding my daughter.
Sorry, but this was supposed to a family weekend. Over half was spent dealing with families that are no more. At least I got out with my girls for a few laps at the local t-bar today.
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02-17-2020, 08:31 PM #4479
I often get lot of, "this is bullshit, why do I have to deal with all this?" from my clients.
I always say, "you married and fucked her, that's why". Usually shuts them right up. I try to get that out of the way early.
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02-17-2020, 08:56 PM #4480
Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
I will say that you can and should avoid divorce attorneys at all costs. You can do it yourself.
not funLast edited by ~mikey b; 02-17-2020 at 09:47 PM.
I didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.
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02-18-2020, 07:13 AM #4481
Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
My brother got the boot. He’s been living large in SoCal, the dream, and was a complete dick to me over the urs in regards to my divorce, getting stranded in St Louis. Actually told me I was a “bum” when I hit hard times afterwards.
His wife makes 500k a yr, and doesn’t need him. She travels a lot, probably fucking another dude, drinks a lot. Two teenagers, totally fucked. Now he’s in a vrbo.
Sooner or later, we all get an education about ourselves. I’d love to help the guy, but he’s too stupid to call for advice. She’ll string him along, let him keep doing the kid chores.
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02-20-2020, 11:14 AM #4482
Fun development for me this week. My ex started dating this guy from work. After 23 years together she gave it all of 2 weeks since we officially called it quits... which, while definitely tacky, whatever, I don't really care. But she had him over to the house this past weekend... with all three of my fucking kids there. We haven't even had a chance to sit them down and tell them we're getting divorced. At bed time, my 11 year old daughter called me bawling.
Talk about fucked up behavior. What a cunt. Really just trying to get through this settlement and not scorch the earth and waste money on lawyers... but god damn, part of me really wants to.
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02-20-2020, 11:21 AM #4483Banned
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02-20-2020, 11:53 AM #4484
Nuke from orbit.
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02-20-2020, 11:54 AM #4485
And I'm guessing it's been going on longer than 2 weeks. That's too much of a coincidence.
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02-20-2020, 12:14 PM #4486Banned
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Make sure legal counsel is aware of this news.
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02-20-2020, 12:20 PM #4487Registered User
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To add...
Never talk shit about her to the kids
Let them figure that out for themselves as they grow
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02-20-2020, 12:25 PM #4488Registered User
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OR you could be smart and just move on
which you will have to do anywayLee Lau - xxx-er is the laziest Asian canuck I know
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02-20-2020, 12:40 PM #4489
^ This. There’s nothing you can do about it TJ. Take the high road. Learn not to let it get to you.
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02-20-2020, 12:50 PM #4490
If age has taught me one lesson, it is you may not like it, but if you can't do anything about it (which you can't) forget about it and move on with your life. Once your kids are older, they will appreciate you a lot if you were a good dad, so do your best to be that guy and blow that woman's shit off.
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02-20-2020, 01:01 PM #4491
That's horrible your kids had to find out that way. But, previously in this thread somebody said this (paraphrasing): Your soon-to-be ex dating before the divorce is final is great. The happier and more distracted she is the better because it makes her that much less likely to want to fuck you over. And if she does try to screw you, now you have ammo.
Deep breaths, stay calm, stay rational.
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02-20-2020, 01:06 PM #4492Been there, skied that.
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02-20-2020, 01:20 PM #4493
If she only took two weeks to snort another dick out of a pack, extra douche bag points for it being one of your co workers, be on guard for her to use New dad to try and turn the kids against you.
You had best talk to the kids now.watch out for snakes
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02-20-2020, 01:29 PM #4494
Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
Dang don’t like seeing these things - feel for you TJ. Have little to add to the good reasonable advice above...
Do have a question if you’re willing to share? Can you / do you look back and see signals when y’all first connected that make this ending seem inevitable (in hindsight).?
Or had you just drifted apart as a couple?
All the split talk above by others has me curious about it. Thanks
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02-20-2020, 02:28 PM #4495
CL, from the marriage encounter workshops we did years ago, people who do not work on their marriage pretty much everyday (just the little things) end up growing apart and becoming "Married Singles". At the time I could see that is what happened to us. Coming back together is hard but not impossible. I have heard testimonies of the worst shit, yet the couple over came it with the proper guidance and desire to stay together. That is not for everyone, but it is possible. My best wishes to all the guys in this thread going through this shit.
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02-20-2020, 02:34 PM #4496
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02-20-2020, 02:39 PM #4497
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02-20-2020, 02:45 PM #4498Banned
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02-20-2020, 02:58 PM #4499Registered User
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maybe the laws are different down there but does any judge really give a fuck ?
When I spent 2 days in court over the starter marriage nobody really cared who fucked whom
it was just get the business end of it done
men and women fuck each other up in a marriage same as it ever wasLee Lau - xxx-er is the laziest Asian canuck I know
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02-20-2020, 04:07 PM #4500
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