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  1. #4351
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chugachjed View Post
    Been coming for years. Gonna get more ski days. Nobody screaming at me on the phone because I work out of town.
    Good luck with it man.

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    Thanks. I’m getting a lot of gym time and it’s helping.
    But Ellen kicks ass - if she had a beard it would be much more haggard. -Jer

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    Hang in there yo. Sorry you gots to deal with that stuff.

    Quote Originally Posted by Chugachjed View Post
    Thanks. I’m getting a lot of gym time and it’s helping.
    Quote Originally Posted by Foggy_Goggles View Post
    If I lived in WA, Oft would be my realtor. Seriously.

  4. #4354
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    Quote Originally Posted by SB View Post
    She is so Downtown
    Smaltzy as it is I LOVE that song. belt it out as loud as possible in the car regardless of who's around. wait, what where we talkin about?
    "Can't you see..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marshall Tucker View Post
    Smaltzy as it is I LOVE that song. belt it out as loud as possible in the car regardless of who's around. wait, what where we talkin about?
    watch out for snakes

  6. #4356
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    Different hippy girl.
    I didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.

  7. #4357
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    Who keeps the trailer? And the sleds?

    https://www-m.cnn.com/2019/09/09/pol...www.cnn.com%2F

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marshall Tucker View Post
    Smaltzy as it is I LOVE that song. belt it out as loud as possible in the car

    I bet I can change your mind!


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    ^ I sang along with her! it was awesome, captian!
    "Can't you see..."

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    I'm in the thick of it. Knew I would be. Not surprised. Doesn't make it less painful.

    This will be the first night in all 3 kids lives I haven't said goodnight.

    But, having that isn't worth being verbally and emotionally abused on the regs.

    Finances are fucked. Beyond.

    On my way to a hotel.

  11. #4361
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    That's so rough.

    All I have is, life is different from moment to moment, hang in there for a different moment

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    Sucks man. Good luck.

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    Thanks gents.

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    Hang in there, Mang.
    Daniel Ortega eats here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSilverSurfer View Post
    I'm in the thick of it. Knew I would be. Not surprised. Doesn't make it less painful.

    This will be the first night in all 3 kids lives I haven't said goodnight.

    But, having that isn't worth being verbally and emotionally abused on the regs.

    Finances are fucked. Beyond.

    On my way to a hotel.
    Normally I like being in a boat with other people but this one sucks. I’m right there with you brother.
    But Ellen kicks ass - if she had a beard it would be much more haggard. -Jer

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    Right back atcha. Sorry you're dealing with this shit too.

    Fuck. I miss my kids. Miserable.

  17. #4367
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    Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice

    Really feel for you guys, I'm sorry you are going through this right now, life is difficult enough to have to deal with this kind of destabilizing upheaval. The only thing I have to offer is that choosing to believe that things can and will get better (and staying away from the juice) will likely keep your head in the game for what really matters, your children - and by extension your own well being.

  18. #4368
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    ACH is spot on. A year out I’m still struggling. Still very sad and lonely. But staying sober and positive means I’m doing ok.
    I didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.

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    I’m not a drinker. I might get back off the wagon for a few days. Probably not going to help but https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=47GhByvY7jA
    But Ellen kicks ass - if she had a beard it would be much more haggard. -Jer

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    Two years out. Nothing is lonelier than being with somebody who is shitty and self centered and narcissistic.

    My kids are good. It’s still hard. I still have to deal with her being a terrible person. My stories about the shit she still frequently pulls or says are amazing.... but it’s external now.

    I’m with somebody now who is a nice, good, rational person who gives a shit about other people. It’s amazing.

    It gets better. Knowing that it gets better is so key to the whole process. It gets better.

    https://youtu.be/L06ws41x2zc
    focus.

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    I don't know what I'm doing right now.

    Wife asked me to come over yesterday to help with the kids. Took them out in the morning and then spent the afternoon cleaning the play yard with the eldest. Wife bitched at me every chance. Convinced me it's all my fault. (most of it is). Then she kicked me out at 10:30 to stand in the rain while she berated me more. That lasted for ten minutes.

    Supposedly we are going to try and co-parent while living together, and dating other people. I'm not down with that. (She wants to do this until our babies are older and easier to take care of, so maybe a year and half)

    It doesn't help that she's still getting on me for irrelevant shit.

    Instincts are too leave. Now. I don't see it getting better and I'm not okay with seeing other people. Otoh, one night of not putting kids to bed was tough enough.

    I have a dream that it will all work out and we'll have a happy life ever after, but if I'm the only one working towards that I think the chances are slim.

    Lost and confused

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    Plenty of people take care of three babies at a time... the little ones are 1ish and then a preschooler?

    50/50 custody. Half of your life revolves around the kids and then you get a break.

    If she cant figure out how to put 3 kids to bed herself, she has issues.

    She wants the best of both worlds. Tell her no.

    If she wants to fight or be disrespectful or yell, leave.

    Get attorney. Get own place. Stop giving in.

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    Fuck man, that’s not a good place to be. Vibes
    Your instincts will lead you to a better place. Wish I had some experience to opine

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    that's a hard read, damn. calm down.

    sounds like shit is blowing up.

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    TSS, set boundaries for yourself, like not getting bitched out. Let her know those boundaries, stick with them. Be fair, and don’t let her roll over you.

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