Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice

[J. Barron DeJong]

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[skiballs]

Still think storm chasing and a Vegas adventure is the best medicine.


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[NBABUCKS1]

there's no storms to chase so i guess vegas it is.

[shafty85]

Stupid, superficial, bimbos. Girls in Seattle are smart, outdoorsy, and attractive. The place is absolutely teeming with them. And despite Seattle being overrun with high-paid tech bros, the girls are desperate for normal people not employed in tech.

Move to Seattle. I didn't meet shit for girls in the three years I lived in Salt Lake City. And before you blame me for that, my friends (who were all great catches) had the same problems. Normal guys move to Salt Lake City. It takes a special female to move there. It's like one giant ski town with a terrible ratio. Seattle is where all the highly educated single chicks move to who are too focused on their careers to date during their 20s and then get to their 30s with a stable, high paying job desperate for a man.

If one wound up with you, they would have to be desperate, wouldn't they. I would question her being smart. Unless you're loaded and she married you for your money.

but if i were to goes chick fishin
id as fuck for sure leave you at home

This was a great line. And accurate.

I knew there were a lot of dentists on here but I had no idea how many relationship experts we had hanging around.

I believe they are both dentists and relationship experts - just ask them.

I find it sad that so many of you are shitting on tgapp's desire to try to rebuild his marriage. If it winds up not working, he's a big boy and able to make his own mistakes. He obviously feels that it's worth the time, effort, emotional input and risk. You may have decided your relationship/marriage wasn't worth that effort - and fine, that's your decision and you do you - but what does that say about your relationship and its value to you in the first place? And if you did try and it didn't work out, that's your experience but not everyone's; there are many out there with different experiences. People make mistakes (with the obvious exception of the dentists contributing to this SNAFU of a thread). Deciding to blow up an 8year+ relationship without even trying to rebuild it seems more the crazy option to me. Some support as to strategies to rebuild his marriage his marriage would be far more useful.

tgapp's relationship style, agreements, etc are his to make. You don't like them? Don't use them in your own life/relationships. Such archaic and toxic thinking and views - both towards different relationships and women - from so many here.

Those of you claiming it was all hookers and blow with endless ladies after your relationships imploded are either lying, omitting the struggles and lows that accompanied those highs, or both.

tgapp - you do you, man. Best of luck whichever way it works out with the relationship.

[AK47bp]

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[MakersTeleMark]

If one wound up with you, they would have to be desperate, wouldn't they. I would question her being smart. Unless you're loaded and she married you for your money.



This was a great line. And accurate.



I believe they are both dentists and relationship experts - just ask them.

I find it sad that so many of you are shitting on tgapp's desire to try to rebuild his marriage. If it winds up not working, he's a big boy and able to make his own mistakes. He obviously feels that it's worth the time, effort, emotional input and risk. You may have decided your relationship/marriage wasn't worth that effort - and fine, that's your decision and you do you - but what does that say about your relationship and its value to you in the first place? And if you did try and it didn't work out, that's your experience but not everyone's; there are many out there with different experiences. People make mistakes (with the obvious exception of the dentists contributing to this SNAFU of a thread). Deciding to blow up an 8year+ relationship without even trying to rebuild it seems more the crazy option to me. Some support as to strategies to rebuild his marriage his marriage would be far more useful.

tgapp's relationship style, agreements, etc are his to make. You don't like them? Don't use them in your own life/relationships. Such archaic and toxic thinking and views - both towards different relationships and women - from so many here.

Those of you claiming it was all hookers and blow with endless ladies after your relationships imploded are either lying, omitting the struggles and lows that accompanied those highs, or both.

tgapp - you do you, man. Best of luck whichever way it works out with the relationship.

#virtuesignaling

[skifishbum]

thread needs sum

[bennymac]

#virtuesignaling

I thought he made good points.

[skiskiskiskiski]

You guys sure are douchbags.

Hang in there tgapp.

[Conundrum]

Good luck tgapp. Lots of highs and lows coming your way as you work things out no matter which way they go. Enjoy the highs and remember them when shit gets dark. It will always come around if you want it to.

[BC13]

If one wound up with you, they would have to be desperate, wouldn't they. I would question her being smart. Unless you're loaded and she married you for your money.



This was a great line. And accurate.



I believe they are both dentists and relationship experts - just ask them.

I find it sad that so many of you are shitting on tgapp's desire to try to rebuild his marriage. If it winds up not working, he's a big boy and able to make his own mistakes. He obviously feels that it's worth the time, effort, emotional input and risk. You may have decided your relationship/marriage wasn't worth that effort - and fine, that's your decision and you do you - but what does that say about your relationship and its value to you in the first place? And if you did try and it didn't work out, that's your experience but not everyone's; there are many out there with different experiences. People make mistakes (with the obvious exception of the dentists contributing to this SNAFU of a thread). Deciding to blow up an 8year+ relationship without even trying to rebuild it seems more the crazy option to me. Some support as to strategies to rebuild his marriage his marriage would be far more useful.

tgapp's relationship style, agreements, etc are his to make. You don't like them? Don't use them in your own life/relationships. Such archaic and toxic thinking and views - both towards different relationships and women - from so many here.

Those of you claiming it was all hookers and blow with endless ladies after your relationships imploded are either lying, omitting the struggles and lows that accompanied those highs, or both.

tgapp - you do you, man. Best of luck whichever way it works out with the relationship.

I thought most were trying to be helpful. A couple of judgemental posts, but on the whole it appeared people were trying to help. Most also stressed the horrible lows that would be coming his way. The lows, the ladies, more lows and the healing are all part of the process. You are right, TGapp has to make his own choices, all we can do is share our own experiences and let him decide the weight, if any, they merit.

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[oftpiste]

^^^ or we can keep it to ourselves as he requested unless he asks otherwise.

[ill-advised strategy]

I don’t want to be out. Don’t want the beer in front of me.
All I want is to be settled in at home, but home is now a place of crying and discussions about dismantling everything, discussions that make my eyes blurry and my neck hurt and my guts ache and spasm like I want to puke blood. So here I am.

[skifishbum]

You haz my number
Anytime you need to call

[JimmyCarter]

I don’t want to be out. Don’t want the beer in front of me.
All I want is to be settled in at home, but home is now a place of crying and discussions about dismantling everything, discussions that make my eyes blurry and my neck hurt and my guts ache and spasm like I want to puke blood. So here I am.

Ahh shit, that sucks.
Good luck with it all, for whatever that’s worth.

[skuff]

tgapp - you do you, man. Best of luck whichever way it works out with the relationship.

this

[Buzzworthy]

I don’t want to be out. Don’t want the beer in front of me.
All I want is to be settled in at home, but home is now a place of crying and discussions about dismantling everything, discussions that make my eyes blurry and my neck hurt and my guts ache and spasm like I want to puke blood. So here I am.

finish it and go back home is my advice
Nothing good coming from beer and emotions
If it’s worth working on go do it

[Mustonen]

I’m sorry, J. I truly think there’s something better for you on the other side of this, whatever that may be. You know where I am.

[skinipenem]

There's much more to this story that I'm not sharing out of respect for her (and my) privacy. Suffice it to say, there was no infidelity but she is leaving me for another guy that she met about a month ago.

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Just stumbled into this thread.

Vibes man. Hang in there. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Wherever that tunnel might go.

Edited after reading the entire thread.
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[oftpiste]

That's a fine descriptive piece of writing right there. So spot on. Keep a clear head if you can. Reach out if you'd like an ear. I'm so very sorry for your suffering.

I don’t want to be out. Don’t want the beer in front of me.
All I want is to be settled in at home, but home is now a place of crying and discussions about dismantling everything, discussions that make my eyes blurry and my neck hurt and my guts ache and spasm like I want to puke blood. So here I am.

[liv2ski]

tgapp, I have been thinking about you buddy. I know this was a big weekend for you and I hope the presentations had a positive impact for the 2 of you. This was a very hard process for Mrs L2S and I, but we hung in there through the follow up presentations and after a year or so, our lives were on the same track together again. Much love to you both.

[tgapp]

tgapp, I have been thinking about you buddy. I know this was a big weekend for you and I hope the presentations had a positive impact for the 2 of you. This was a very hard process for Mrs L2S and I, but we hung in there through the follow up presentations and after a year or so, our lives were on the same track together again. Much love to you both.

thanks buddy.

and, thank all of you. so much.

I've been absent here but still reading every comment.

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[Marshall Tucker]

but we hung in there through the follow up presentations and after a year or so, our lives were on the same track together again. Much love to you both.

that's great to read. almost 35 years in and, I mean. Your 40-ish. got 5 total mouths to feed. One W-2. School and sports. Mortgage/job/boss/trying to save. a ski day once in a while. man. that was fuckin hard.

Good to get to the north side of that.

[frorider]

Shit Yeti, hoping for peace and progress at home.

[retirwntm]

Shit, Tgapp. No sage advice about any of this but Vibes for you man. Youve been super helpful and willing to answer questions and offer advice in the coffee thread and it’s been greatly appreciated.

Don’t worry about what others think. If this is the place and the way you need to access help then by all means do it and a big fuck off to those that can’t appreciate your situation and show some sympathy. Everyone has been there in one way or another and it’s not easy.


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