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09-08-2019, 05:39 PM #4351Funky But Chic
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09-08-2019, 06:12 PM #4352
Thanks. I’m getting a lot of gym time and it’s helping.
But Ellen kicks ass - if she had a beard it would be much more haggard. -Jer
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09-08-2019, 06:47 PM #4353
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09-09-2019, 11:12 AM #4354
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09-09-2019, 11:29 AM #4355
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09-09-2019, 10:52 PM #4356
Different hippy girl.
I didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.
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09-10-2019, 02:50 PM #4357
Who keeps the trailer? And the sleds?
https://www-m.cnn.com/2019/09/09/pol...www.cnn.com%2F
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09-13-2019, 10:02 AM #4358
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09-13-2019, 02:00 PM #4359
^ I sang along with her! it was awesome, captian!
"Can't you see..."
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09-13-2019, 07:38 PM #4360Registered User
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I'm in the thick of it. Knew I would be. Not surprised. Doesn't make it less painful.
This will be the first night in all 3 kids lives I haven't said goodnight.
But, having that isn't worth being verbally and emotionally abused on the regs.
Finances are fucked. Beyond.
On my way to a hotel.
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09-13-2019, 07:50 PM #4361Funky But Chic
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That's so rough.
All I have is, life is different from moment to moment, hang in there for a different moment
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09-13-2019, 08:47 PM #4362
Sucks man. Good luck.
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09-13-2019, 08:56 PM #4363Registered User
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Thanks gents.
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09-13-2019, 10:04 PM #4364
Hang in there, Mang.
Daniel Ortega eats here.
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09-14-2019, 01:14 AM #4365
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09-14-2019, 03:24 AM #4366Registered User
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Right back atcha. Sorry you're dealing with this shit too.
Fuck. I miss my kids. Miserable.
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09-14-2019, 10:09 AM #4367
Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
Really feel for you guys, I'm sorry you are going through this right now, life is difficult enough to have to deal with this kind of destabilizing upheaval. The only thing I have to offer is that choosing to believe that things can and will get better (and staying away from the juice) will likely keep your head in the game for what really matters, your children - and by extension your own well being.
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09-14-2019, 10:28 AM #4368
ACH is spot on. A year out I’m still struggling. Still very sad and lonely. But staying sober and positive means I’m doing ok.
I didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.
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09-14-2019, 05:42 PM #4369
I’m not a drinker. I might get back off the wagon for a few days. Probably not going to help but https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=47GhByvY7jA
But Ellen kicks ass - if she had a beard it would be much more haggard. -Jer
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09-14-2019, 06:57 PM #4370I drink it up
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Two years out. Nothing is lonelier than being with somebody who is shitty and self centered and narcissistic.
My kids are good. It’s still hard. I still have to deal with her being a terrible person. My stories about the shit she still frequently pulls or says are amazing.... but it’s external now.
I’m with somebody now who is a nice, good, rational person who gives a shit about other people. It’s amazing.
It gets better. Knowing that it gets better is so key to the whole process. It gets better.
https://youtu.be/L06ws41x2zcfocus.
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09-15-2019, 12:01 PM #4371Registered User
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I don't know what I'm doing right now.
Wife asked me to come over yesterday to help with the kids. Took them out in the morning and then spent the afternoon cleaning the play yard with the eldest. Wife bitched at me every chance. Convinced me it's all my fault. (most of it is). Then she kicked me out at 10:30 to stand in the rain while she berated me more. That lasted for ten minutes.
Supposedly we are going to try and co-parent while living together, and dating other people. I'm not down with that. (She wants to do this until our babies are older and easier to take care of, so maybe a year and half)
It doesn't help that she's still getting on me for irrelevant shit.
Instincts are too leave. Now. I don't see it getting better and I'm not okay with seeing other people. Otoh, one night of not putting kids to bed was tough enough.
I have a dream that it will all work out and we'll have a happy life ever after, but if I'm the only one working towards that I think the chances are slim.
Lost and confused
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09-15-2019, 12:10 PM #4372Banned
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Plenty of people take care of three babies at a time... the little ones are 1ish and then a preschooler?
50/50 custody. Half of your life revolves around the kids and then you get a break.
If she cant figure out how to put 3 kids to bed herself, she has issues.
She wants the best of both worlds. Tell her no.
If she wants to fight or be disrespectful or yell, leave.
Get attorney. Get own place. Stop giving in.
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09-15-2019, 12:12 PM #4373
Fuck man, that’s not a good place to be. Vibes
Your instincts will lead you to a better place. Wish I had some experience to opine
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09-15-2019, 04:54 PM #4374
that's a hard read, damn. calm down.
sounds like shit is blowing up.
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09-15-2019, 06:28 PM #4375
TSS, set boundaries for yourself, like not getting bitched out. Let her know those boundaries, stick with them. Be fair, and don’t let her roll over you.
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