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09-01-2022, 01:47 PM #5926
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09-01-2022, 02:08 PM #5927
Happened to my wife's friend. She got rid of him her way but he went on to kill his next wife in a murder suicide. Thankfully not me, the night I stayed at their house.
I'd be reluctant to get advice on how to deal with this from anything less than experts in this field, definitely not LEO'S or internet strangers.
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09-01-2022, 02:25 PM #5928
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09-01-2022, 02:28 PM #5929Registered User
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Fuck the police. I have never seen a situation so bad that the police cannot make it worse.
I have secured a good friend to come with me back to the marital home tomorrow to retrieve the rest of my shit and to inspect condition of my largest asset. Both the SO and The PD refuse to provide peace officer standby because there is no court order.
She is gonna flip when or if she sees me towing two shiny new KTMs behind my old truck. Payback is a bitch and stuff.
And yes, all y’all that suggested detaching from any imperative for “justice” or fairness or rightness were correct. It is a lot easier to enjoy getting fucked when one just accepts being the receiver of a wicked pseudo-rectifying massive state phallus in the rear.
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09-01-2022, 02:49 PM #5930
I let her know today when she picked the dog up that I can help with him if/when she has court appts but beyond that DTM and I will need to NOT be involved. I made sure to tell her to use the resources she's been given for help (not the actual police) and to reach out to those in their professional fields. She's already done a lot today and made many phone calls. She's packing up and going to stay with family for a while. Heartbreaking.
you sketchy character, you
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09-01-2022, 03:51 PM #5931Registered User
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09-01-2022, 05:34 PM #5932
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09-01-2022, 06:12 PM #5933
Someone else can book an Airbnb for her. Someone else rent a car. New phone. Poof. Gone.
Gnarly story. Ppl are insane. Best of luck.
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09-01-2022, 06:16 PM #5934
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09-01-2022, 06:17 PM #5935
Ha! If only it were as simple as Poof. Gone.
Apparently he came back to their house, after being told by the cops he's being served and to stay way...etc, etc and took a bunch of cash, removed her as a driver from their Tesla amongst other things. He's going to go crazy before they even start in with the lawyers they've now hired next week. They own five storage unit business (out of state) together and just built a $1.2 million home just east of us, so two mortgages right now. It's going to get REALLY UGLY.you sketchy character, you
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09-01-2022, 06:32 PM #5936
I dunno about enjoying getting fucked (that kind of fucked anyway), but tolerating it perhaps. You're not alone!
My exes family has money, and her dad had died not too long before we split. Of course I had no claim to that $ and wouldn't have gone after it anyway, but at one point she said to me she would never be getting any of the family dough as it was all going in trust for the kids (ours and her sib's kids). I knew that was bullshit at the time. Made no sense. She came at me with guns blazing during the settlement stage (all her atty fees paid by her mom) for very dime she could, and it quite nearly ruined me financially.
Four years later, she just bought a 2 million dollar waterfront house on the Salish Sea. She paid cash. She has not sold the property she got in the divorce, nor does she make that kind of money. Go figure. The family money never was applied to our lives as a couple beyond a $40k gift to buy our first house very early on, which I later leveraged into some good investment properties, one of which she ended up with.
It's a head shaker, and admittedly hard to swallow after the way I was treated, but getting out of that marriage is still the best thing that ever happened to me.
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09-01-2022, 06:33 PM #5937
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09-01-2022, 07:00 PM #5938
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09-01-2022, 09:44 PM #5939
@AC&Dan - Can your friend get the STBEx’s guns taken away in a ‘red flag’ order? You can get one in OR if person poses risk to self or others. Don’t know about UT.
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09-02-2022, 12:37 PM #5940
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09-02-2022, 02:47 PM #5941
not to make light of the situation
but it is TGR
so….
https://youtu.be/hM27aRWdqpYI didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.
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09-02-2022, 04:47 PM #5942User
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09-02-2022, 05:07 PM #5943
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09-02-2022, 05:14 PM #5944
I was about to call BS on this but then looked it up and... wow. I knew it was prevalent, but not that bad. https://www.fatherly.com/life/police...estic-violence
"The major study here was done by a police officer and a sociologist in Tucson, Arizona, working with a collaborator who had studied domestic violence in military families. It wasn’t by the police department officially. That study found that 40 percent of cops reported having participated in domestic violence in the previous year. The researchers questioned spouses and officers separately with anonymous questions and came up with strikingly similar figures."
Holy shit...I ski 135 degree chutes switch to the road.
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09-02-2022, 05:23 PM #5945
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09-04-2022, 05:10 PM #5946Registered User
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Neither PD nor SO would show up for civil standby when I went to retrieve the rest of my belongings two days ago….something about a Racism and Donuts gathering.
Thank goodness for the brother I have in old Sal. He helped me to release the fact that half the town is banging the stbx, to get my shit and get out. Peace be upon all in such situations.
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09-07-2022, 08:55 AM #5947
Altachic and DTM, have your friend read this book, particularly if she has kids: https://www.amazon.com/Splitting-Pro.../dp/1608820254
It is a short read, and helpful, for anyone leaving a partner who is Borderline and/or Narcissistic.Originally Posted by blurred
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10-05-2022, 03:38 PM #5948Registered User
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just took a day off work to spend waiting to tell the judge that any fucking day, any any any, day will work for me to get this divorce party kicked off. Looks like next year maybe the state will do something to get this done LOL.
The irony of that rotten cunt still camping on my equity in the marital home when my tiny little new human being arrives into the loving home I am creating with my GF is thick.
Fuck the state, and woe betide those that voluntarily join so broken a system. Prenups each and every fucking time.
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10-05-2022, 04:23 PM #5949
Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
Wtf are you trying to accomplish by willfully turning your life into an episode of Maury Povich?
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10-05-2022, 04:27 PM #5950
entertain us obviously
I didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.
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