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07-12-2022, 12:00 PM #5826
it's not a binary situation mb6-
your own statement ( highlighted ) contradicts your claim : the children of divorced parents fared nearly as well ...
riser- lived his situation, and he doesn't need me defending him - but you really need to try to stop projecting your claims to the Life experiences of others.
Thank you. skiJ
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07-12-2022, 12:22 PM #5827Banned
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My comments were directed at muted reborns comment that the article was misguided.
Riser brought his situation forward as antidotal evidence of muted statement that the article was "misguided".
My argument is that its "misguided" to present a traditional, paternal nuclear family as always the best for children in all cases.
His situation may or may not have been better had his parents stayed married, however, if you are going to bring your situation into a discussion as evidence that's pretty much consent to have it questioned and discussed.
I would suggest reading the article.
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07-12-2022, 12:46 PM #5828
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07-12-2022, 12:48 PM #5829Registered User
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I forget what grade ( probably grade school ) but back in the day I asked junior how he was with the fact his parents were divorced and he said
" every kid in my class except for one or two have divorced parents so whats the big deal ? "
Consider kids get fucked up when the parents are fucked up but if you are OK your kids will be OK,Lee Lau - xxx-er is the laziest Asian canuck I know
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07-12-2022, 12:49 PM #5830
There's a lot of ground between a "traditional, paternal nuclear family" and avoiding divorce at all costs. You are being intentionally obtuse perhaps?
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07-12-2022, 06:04 PM #5831Riser brought his situation forward as antidotal evidence of muted statement that the article was "misguided".I have been in this State for 30 years and I am willing to admit that I am part of the problem.
"Happiest years of my life were earning < $8.00 and hour, collecting unemployment every spring and fall, no car, no debt and no responsibilities. 1984-1990 Park City UT"
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07-12-2022, 06:32 PM #5832
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07-12-2022, 06:35 PM #5833
Well, for all intensive purposes either could be right?
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07-12-2022, 07:12 PM #5834"fuck off you asshat gaper shit for brains fucktard wanker." - Jesus Christ
"She was tossing her bean salad with the vigor of a Drunken Pop princess so I walked out of the corner and said.... "need a hand?"" - Odin
"everybody's got their hooks into you, fuck em....forge on motherfuckers, drag all those bitches across the goal line with you." - (not so) ill-advised strategy
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07-12-2022, 07:19 PM #5835
I divorced when my kids were 3, and they are damn near perfect. Having grown up in a home where my parents fought like cats and dogs it was the right call.
My ex remarried when my twins were 10, and he moved in with his kids. My kids had some issues with that, counseling etc. and he was a pretty decent guy.
So it’s never perfect. Married, divorced etc. you have kids, and you’re sure to give them something to complain about.
But mine are doing a hell of a lot better than I did.
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07-26-2022, 11:15 AM #5836
Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
been hanging out a bit with an old girlfriend from back in the day - that’s been fun - she’s going through a shit divorce herself so we’re taking it slow trying not to upset the kids or the ex or the friends
the day I had my ex wife, my ex girlfriend and my coworker pop up in Match is the day I deleted itLast edited by ~mikey b; 07-26-2022 at 12:36 PM.
I didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.
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07-26-2022, 11:31 AM #5837Registered User
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07-26-2022, 12:00 PM #5838
that shit happened
I didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.
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07-26-2022, 03:53 PM #5839
You know Mikey, I dated some really nice "young" women way back in the day and truth be told, I think of two of them often. If I hadn't been so young, maybe there could of been something there or not. Doesn't matter, as for Mrs L2S and I it is "until death do us part". I am leaning towards murder suicide at some point.
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07-26-2022, 05:33 PM #5840
well we’ve been in touch for a few years and just started spending some time together and it’s been really great so far
I didn't believe in reincarnation when I was your age either.
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07-27-2022, 06:12 AM #5841
thread needs sum cale
and jimmers
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07-29-2022, 02:19 PM #5842Registered User
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Well so apparently my 1998 18’ aire cataraft and kit are worth $7,000 (i paid $3500 some years ago; my bipolar stbx thinks $7,000 is more reasonable for some reason). The other marital raft is a 9’….but she thinks it is a 105’ worth over 2x what I paid. Anyone want to buy an old raft or my POS moto that she also thinks is worth way more than it is? This is insane.
Also, I have her on video harassing and assaulting me despite my repeatedly de escalatory efforts….she called the cops that night and she got arrested LoL. Apparently since her harassment charge was dropped no one in the state of CO cares about the reason that I have not slept, nor will again sleep, in the marital home. WWMD? File a criminal complaint?
This stuff is pretty awful.
Reconnecting with the splendid person, and ahem, breasts, of my HS sweetheart though….definitely excellent. Esp since I aim to become a father before the divorce is through the courts.
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07-29-2022, 02:31 PM #5843
My wife got bullied/tricked into giving a buy bid for this dude's boat, and it turns out that he was in the middle of a divorce and was trying to get a lowball offer to not have to pay his STBE as much as she was asking for. The guy's lawyer subpoenaed her to try and get her to testify to the amount, and she basically said that he wasn't going to like what she said on the stand, and that if they put her up there she would bring the NADA private sale value with her, and tell the judge she wasn't qualified to appraise boats. They ultimately decided that they didn't want to do that, so she lost out on a day at court, but that dude was a total scumbag/asshole.
There are appraisers out there who will give you actual values, or you can run some comps in your area to get at a real value, though it's might not be worth the cost for what you would save in the long run, even if your STBE is being unreasonable.
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07-29-2022, 03:34 PM #5844
No need for an independent appraisal if she says it's worth more than what was actually paid. Pretty ridiculous and easy to prove that and a mediator or judge will look unkindly at such nonsense.
I ski 135 degree chutes switch to the road.
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07-29-2022, 07:16 PM #5845I drink it up
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It’s just money and this was covered upthread. If she thinks it’s worth $7k give it to her. Her tune will change when the inflated assets are on her balance sheet instead of yours. This shit is literally highest bidder. There are so many boats in the sea….
It sounds like she’s hurt and scared and lashing out. That really sucks and it isn’t ok, but don’t forget to tune into some compassion even as you protect yourself.focus.
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07-29-2022, 07:55 PM #5846
CJ -
If you don't want the (POS) moto ( or a/the rafts), could you assign them to her at the inflated values claimed(,) and take the value in something that actually has value (?)
I would not take anything that was not of value to me for an inflated value - that just gives her greater actual value.
I am sorry you are going through this...
peace. skiJ
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07-30-2022, 06:31 AM #5847
Let her keep those old boats. At those valuations.
After the divorce is final buy yourself a new boat, start living.
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07-30-2022, 07:16 AM #5848
Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
^is the stbx preggers or the new/old chick?
Last edited by skiballs; 07-30-2022 at 08:12 AM.
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07-30-2022, 11:11 AM #5849
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07-30-2022, 11:33 AM #5850Registered User
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it sounds like you are arguing over a few thousand $ which is chicken feed
any divorce lawyer would tell you to quit fucking around and make the dealLee Lau - xxx-er is the laziest Asian canuck I know
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