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11-18-2017, 02:32 PM #2501
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11-18-2017, 03:16 PM #2502Funky But Chic
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Anon, I was just reading up there^^^ a ways that she's not giving you your mail? If that's still the case that's pretty fucked up, and if you miss something important it could be a real problem, you should go open a PO box and get your mail forwarded there, that should be pretty easy. That's all I got, good luck.
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11-18-2017, 03:38 PM #2503
There are always two sides but right now we don't need to give anon doubts and say something like "It seems like you obsess " etc. How many of the last couple poster child have been through this situation? MTM, AW?
Anon. Does she work and what is income disparity? Her lawyer told her to go for full custody and supervised visits, etc the whole painting you black so you will agree to a bad deal or stay in court to pay the lawyers.
Stay out of it. Find a place to stay sane, love your kids, and immediately find a mediator to get a divorce/ separation of bank accounts. Get it legal and then let her spend whatever she wants on attack. She is pissed and we all get crazy in this situation. Men and women. Need to get legal separation asap, with 50-50, and then let her take you to court on custody. If you have DUO, etc, judge might be inclined to grant her. If nothing on record, she has no case. Separate and let her do what she needs to do.
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11-18-2017, 04:58 PM #2504
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11-18-2017, 05:09 PM #2505
Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
Anon- you’ve got some stamina. But watch out of the cheap shot. Assume all your emails are being read.
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11-18-2017, 05:13 PM #2506
This.
A good friend got divorced this year. His lawyer was awesome; hers was a piece of shit, constantly finding little things to do to pad her bill. My friend’s lawyer would match the wife’s bills dollar-for-dollar, but put the money in trust. So on paper they spent the same on lawyers, but after it was all finalized, my friend’s lawyer gave all the money in trust back to my friend. Not sure how legal it was, but pretty cool.
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11-18-2017, 05:14 PM #2507Registered User
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11-18-2017, 05:15 PM #2508Registered User
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11-18-2017, 05:18 PM #2509Registered User
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Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
For all the well wishes, advice, and support - thank you.
Got out on the skis this weekend.... feels a lot better.
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11-18-2017, 05:23 PM #2510
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11-18-2017, 06:02 PM #2511
I wasn't trying to be down on you but we have no idea what's going on besides what you tell us.
We have this anesthesiologist at work and one night a propros of nothing he starts telling us about how his wife asked him to take this empathy quiz online and how she thinks he has narcissistic personality disorder. He was totally baffled. We just stared at him thinking 'No shit Sherlock'
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11-18-2017, 06:23 PM #2512
Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice
Why does everyone have to fucking judge others?
There is no right or wrong here, divorce is failure. No one knows that more than Anon right now, so a simple “that sucks” will suffice.
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11-18-2017, 06:26 PM #2513
Skiing can be a very selfish interest. It takes a lot of time commitment. That might be considered narcissism.
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11-18-2017, 06:27 PM #2514
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11-18-2017, 06:28 PM #2515
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11-18-2017, 07:16 PM #2516
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11-19-2017, 05:31 AM #2517
Uh, tell that to the kids.
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11-19-2017, 06:14 AM #2518"When the child was a child it waited patiently for the first snow and it still does"- Van "The Man" Morrison
"I find I have already had my reward, in the doing of the thing" - Buzz Holmstrom
"THIS IS WHAT WE DO"-AML -ski on in eternal peace
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11-19-2017, 07:43 AM #2519
Ummm, not really much.
As I travel this fucked up path and talk to others I find myself coming to the conclusion that "sometimes people grow apart" is a minority of divorces. If that's how it went for you, congrats and I'm happy for ya. More often than not someone has completely gone off the rails behaviorally which inflicts extraordinary pain on the other party.
Anon's situation ain't "sometimes people just grow apart". Nor are most of them.
Yes, there are two sides to every story. If you heard the other side of mine you would wonder WTF I'm doing. But you wouldn't hear the truth except from me and when I told you the truth you wouldn't be able to imagine in a million years that person doing that stuff.
Anecdotally, this appears to be the case a lot of the time, and it sucks for those on the wrong end. Especially when no one can believe that person is doing that stuff and you're just trying to stay upright behind it.
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11-19-2017, 08:16 AM #2520Registered User
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you probably don't know who the fuck you are right now, that's just part of the deal, don't sweat it, go through the motions, you now have to figure out who you and it sucks alittle more since your probably not in your twenties anymore. Go with the flow, take your time, it sucks balls for sure, in a year or two your new life will be figured out as long as you keep your head up, smile and be postive
keep posting if it makes you feel good and gets shit off your shoulders, don't be afraid to goto consoling or some divorce group therapy shit, it will all help
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11-19-2017, 09:10 AM #2521Registered User
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11-19-2017, 02:05 PM #2522
If your think you're a sack of shit, you're most certainly not one. It's the ones who think they're God's Gift. They smell like hot Indian food and dogshit, without fail.
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11-19-2017, 04:31 PM #2523Registered User
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I'd simply require that the mail be delivered with a required signature, so there is a paper trail of who's receiving it. Technically there is no proof of delivery without that anyways, you can always claim you never got it, and it's up to them to prove it was properly delivered. Without a sig they cannot.
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11-19-2017, 06:54 PM #2524
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11-19-2017, 07:34 PM #2525
im still having a bit of a hard time imagining getting divorced and telling people your marriage is still a success
fault nonwitstanding"When the child was a child it waited patiently for the first snow and it still does"- Van "The Man" Morrison
"I find I have already had my reward, in the doing of the thing" - Buzz Holmstrom
"THIS IS WHAT WE DO"-AML -ski on in eternal peace
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