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08-24-2017, 02:55 PM #1651
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08-24-2017, 02:57 PM #1652
Something to be said for this.
Are You Spouses or Just Roommates?“When you see something that is not right, not just, not fair, you have a moral obligation to say something. To do something." Rep. John Lewis
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08-24-2017, 03:06 PM #1653
Vibes GC
You have passed the first big hurttle, there are others. Do things for yourself when you can. Life will evolve for you.
It does get better eventually.watch out for snakes
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08-24-2017, 03:11 PM #1654"fuck off you asshat gaper shit for brains fucktard wanker." - Jesus Christ
"She was tossing her bean salad with the vigor of a Drunken Pop princess so I walked out of the corner and said.... "need a hand?"" - Odin
"everybody's got their hooks into you, fuck em....forge on motherfuckers, drag all those bitches across the goal line with you." - (not so) ill-advised strategy
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08-24-2017, 03:19 PM #1655Registered User
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08-24-2017, 03:20 PM #1656
Is she ready to give up because her needs aren't being met? Or because she is unable to meet your needs?
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08-24-2017, 03:27 PM #1657Registered User
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08-24-2017, 03:29 PM #1658Registered User
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08-24-2017, 03:31 PM #1659
get a new vibrator and a bucket of coconut oil and some champagne and get after it
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08-24-2017, 03:36 PM #1660Registered User
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08-24-2017, 03:39 PM #1661
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08-24-2017, 03:49 PM #1663
Every time I hear a story like this about the wife blindsiding the husband with divorce it seems like about a 95% chance that she either cheated or has someone lined up and on deck to sleep with. Common themes are reconnecting with an ex, getting close to someone at work, etc. Actually, I can't think of a single time that the wife went on to be single for any significant length of time. They always have someone on deck, at least.
All the advice to go to counseling, "man up", etc is the exact opposite that Gcooker should be doing. She's already checked out if she is initiating divorce.
Gcooker, get on regimented workout routine, invest lots of time into your kids and your hobbies, spend time with your guy friends doing cool shit (if you don't have this, find it) and enjoy hooking up with women 5/10/15 years younger than your wife.
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08-24-2017, 03:55 PM #1664
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08-24-2017, 04:03 PM #1665Rope->Dope
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Your tale reminds me of the book "Us".
Anway, I think this is the hardest part, and would bet there are millions of couples walking around that wish they could say this....
We love each other, we love the kids, have a nice comfortable life and work well as a team. we have sex
Hope things work out for you in the best way possible. There is no correct answer from this panel of dentists.
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08-24-2017, 04:04 PM #1666Registered User
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08-24-2017, 04:05 PM #1667
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08-24-2017, 04:06 PM #1668Registered User
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08-24-2017, 04:06 PM #1669Registered User
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08-24-2017, 04:12 PM #1670
read once, and I think I may have mentioned this somewhere in this thread, that the person who initiates the break-up made the decision, had already moved on, a minimum of 6 months before blindsiding their partner with the news.
That is what happened in one of my relationships. Guy kept being a jerk and didn't see me retreating. By the time I'd reached my limit and informed him it was over I was more than done with him. I wasn't mad. I didn't yell. I was just matter of fact because I'd already dealt with all the stages of breaking up with him on my own so it wasn't emotional for me. I was over it but he was just starting. Problem for the person who is just learning about it is that they want to negotiate but for the other person the ship sailed a long time ago.“When you see something that is not right, not just, not fair, you have a moral obligation to say something. To do something." Rep. John Lewis
Kindness is a bridge between all people
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08-24-2017, 04:36 PM #1671Registered User
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this is true^
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08-24-2017, 05:38 PM #1672
Yep
"fuck off you asshat gaper shit for brains fucktard wanker." - Jesus Christ
"She was tossing her bean salad with the vigor of a Drunken Pop princess so I walked out of the corner and said.... "need a hand?"" - Odin
"everybody's got their hooks into you, fuck em....forge on motherfuckers, drag all those bitches across the goal line with you." - (not so) ill-advised strategy
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08-24-2017, 06:38 PM #1673Registered User
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08-24-2017, 07:32 PM #1674
complacency seems so simple
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08-25-2017, 01:38 PM #1675
Man I'm having a tough time moving on. Dated a girl for 18months. She is divorced about 18 months, yeah overlap. We had an amazing passionate super sexual connected relationship having both come out of relationships where those were both lacking. When I look pragmatically at her, 40, kids 4 and 5, doesn't make enough to support herself, lives in a crappy condo a friend bought for her, her life gets by with people helping her out. Running is her life. Travels to races 3-4 times a year. I foot the bill to about $12k this last year in help with race entries, car repairs, xmas presents for her kids, just help. Deadbeat ex, she would like to get custody full time. She comes from an even crazier train wreck background where her Mom lost custody of her about age 12. She pushed me and pushed me to move in together, in June she pulled back, we were last together mid July, but she wanted to maintain a "committed friendship" even as she started dating a really truthfully 40 year old loser. Hard to move on and away. She keeps reaching out wanting to be friends. Oh, best part, she is a therapist for a $50k/year career. Ugh.
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