Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice

[Danno]

Divorce is very state by state, so alimony (or maintenance) varies a lot.

As for service, why object to service? If you got the papers, you got them. Making them personally serve you seems a waste, but I'm not that type of lawyer.

As for conflict of interest, that doesn't sound like a conflict, unless that same firm has represented you.

[MagnificentUnicorn]

Just that fat, ugly women that are only good to be used as disposable vaginas by desperate men that can't get anything better also sometimes try to do what they can, and shave.

Ok, so you shaved for CW and got herpes? This thread is about divorce not std prevention.

[Tuckerman]

Pretty sure im fucked (not with STDs).

[liv2ski]

^^^^^Sorry to hear that. Fuck the soon to be ex and take care of your kids. Divorce blows for the children, teh adults get over it.

And MtnGirl, did you notice how I didn't reply to you a few pages back. Maybe you should try not replying to every little comment, as you make an ass of yourself.

No response is required.

[MagnificentUnicorn]

^^^^^Sorry to hear that. Fuck the soon to be ex and take care of your kids. Divorce blows for the children, teh adults get over it.

If he could fuck the soon to be ex they probably wouldn't be divorcing.

You can lessen the blow to the kids if you try and be civil.

[DBdude]

You can lessen the blow to the kids if you try and be civil.

yes, my ex and I are civil and work together, sometimes we are even friends

At the end our home was stressful and in some ways my boys are in a better place since we are divorced. There are negatives, mainly on the financial side, but I am doing my best to keep that a minimum

[liv2ski]

If he could fuck the soon to be ex they probably wouldn't be divorcing.

Aaaaa.....wait? What? Maybe to much information in that comment. The mind ponders??????

[doughboyshredder]

Go right ahead, it's not like you can say anything I don't already know. Do it. Try to make me feel worse than I do right now.

And...........right back to being a victim. Even with the motivation to prove me wrong, you couldn't do shit.

[mtngirl79]

And...........right back to being a victim. Even with the motivation to prove me wrong, you couldn't do shit.

Yep. Every time I resist the urge to smash my face into the wall or jump in front of a moving vehicle I am a victim. Everytime I call a drs office trying to get an appointment. Every time I force myself out of bed even though I know I'm going to fuck something up and become one step closer to losing it I am a victim.

Every time I force myself out to exercise and I am running in the park and some asshole makes a horrible comment about fat ugly people, I am a victim.

You are right though. I shouldn't have taken that money. Any decent person would be completely fixed from it, but for its just one more way I fucked up. I still have most of it and I would like to send it back, but that makes me horrible, too.

I shouldn't post here. I shouldn't be anywhere. I shouldn't even exist.

[Brock Landers]

I shouldn't post here.

Quoted for truth

[DBdude]

^mtgrl, nobody denies the broad topics you bring up that we are still a male dominated society, but every time you shove it in our faces when we are just being guys hanging out and then tie in the tough spot you are in makes you a target and very unlikable

I am sorry for the position you are in, but you are not the only one in a tough spot on this board.

[hatchgreenchile]

Be kind, for everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing about.

[HansJob]

alimony: there's a latin term, ___ li te" which means you pay her support while the divorce is being litigated. Alimony and support are two separate creatures. I am not a lawyer.

[neufox47]

So how does the alimony thing work? Also if you get served paper work and don't respond then the sheriff hands it to will it look bad later in court? And are you really getting served if you get the paperwork in the mail?

http://www.divorcenet.com/states/new_hampshire/nhfaq_01

Vibes dude.

Can't help but remember the found panties thread...

[MagnificentUnicorn]

alimony: there's a latin term, ___ li te" which means you pay her support while the divorce is being litigated. Alimony and support are two separate creatures. I am not a lawyer.

Alimony and maintenance are basically the same thing, it's semantics really. Support is usually for children.

Mtngrrrl, I feel bad for you and your situation but like DBdude said it's really unflattering to you when you start in with unrelated posts. Maybe when you feel the urge to express your self loathing or hatred of men go back and post in the last implosion thread you started. And no, this isn't a case of "Shut up because you don't agree with me" just post in a thread devoted to your misery.

[doughboyshredder]

Yep. Every time I resist the urge to smash my face into the wall or jump in front of a moving vehicle I am a victim. Everytime I call a drs office trying to get an appointment. Every time I force myself out of bed even though I know I'm going to fuck something up and become one step closer to losing it I am a victim.

Every time I force myself out to exercise and I am running in the park and some asshole makes a horrible comment about fat ugly people, I am a victim.

You are right though. I shouldn't have taken that money. Any decent person would be completely fixed from it, but for its just one more way I fucked up. I still have most of it and I would like to send it back, but that makes me horrible, too.

I shouldn't post here. I shouldn't be anywhere. I shouldn't even exist.

What makes you a victim is the fact that you haven't listened to any of the excellent advice that you've been given by multiple different members of this forum. Instead you insist on self deprecating in generally complaining about your existence.

[Dhelihiker]

C'mon this girl needs help. I'll start

Halloween Costume ideas for Mtngrl's vag (I'm pretty sure it already has teeth)

[MagnificentUnicorn]

C'mon this girl needs help. I'll start

Halloween Costume ideas for Mtngrl's vag (I'm pretty sure it already has teeth)

Is that middle one the bigfoot from 6 Million Dollar Man?

[mtngirl79]

Dammit I wish I hadn't given Will those oxys

[MagnificentUnicorn]

Dammit I wish I hadn't given Will those oxys

You gave him Oxys and he gave you herpes? That doesn't seem like a fair trade. I'm not sure how this ties in to divorce advice though.

[skiballs]

What makes you a victim is the fact that you haven't listened to any of the excellent advice that you've been given by multiple different members of this forum. Instead you insist on self deprecating in generally complaining about your existence.

Stop making this thread about you.

[doughboyshredder]

Stop making this thread about you.

What e you talking about

[skiballs]

What e you talking about

Your foil hat doesn't alert you to things over your head?

[doughboyshredder]

Your foil hat doesn't alert you to things over your head?

Stop making this thread about you

[mtngirl79]

What makes you a victim is the fact that you haven't listened to any of the excellent advice that you've been given by multiple different members of this forum. Instead you insist on self deprecating in generally complaining about your existence.

What advice have I ignored? I get outside and exercise every chance I get. Go skiing? I attempted that last weekend... it was a failed attempt, but I fucking tried. Get help? I'm waiting. Nobody has time to help me.

I'm fatally flawed. Just keep telling me how horrible and gross I am.