I think its different everywhere but we renegotiated child support without a lawyer at least 3 times, she would ask and I would offer a little more "tell ya what I'm gona do for ya " but the key was keeping the lawyers out of it and staying in control, also she never wanted alimony, shitty wife but she was a pretty good ex-wife eh
but in any case those were my kids, so I would just give her a stack of post dated cheques, so never once late with and never once begrudged the money i sent her for child support ever, ironicaly it was she who lost a couple of the cheques which I replaced
Its been 25yars, so between time/booze/drugs/ snorting AQS fumes it's all pretty hazy but at some point i calculated I was net making 10$ a month paying child support after taxes but I can't remember exactly how
Consider there are also dead beat men out there that women had to pay off in divorce, met a pretty sharp business woman last week who maybe wasnt so sharp in love ... she ended up paying off both her husbands
at my age I get into long term relationships with women in menopause so its been like ground hog day
edit: now I remember, the child tax credit was > the residual child support
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