Tammy Wynette cannot be reached for help-Divorce advice

SB · 11-22-2019, 10:53 AM

There are a shit load out there that are plainly insane in the membrain.

**riser4** · 11-22-2019, 11:50 AM

Originally Posted by SB

There are a shit load out there that are plainly insane in the membrain.

**Cheeseburger King** · 11-22-2019, 01:05 PM

Originally Posted by TahoeJ

Finally convinced myself of this. Signed a lease for my own place a few days ago and moving out this week. We have to tell our three kids tomorrow, so that should be fun. Fuck.

hope it went well and everyone is ok.

take it from me, it will get better.

**2bjenny** · 11-22-2019, 01:09 PM

Originally Posted by SB

There are a shit load out there that are plainly insane in the membrain.

Posted this in the Things That Amuse You....

**skaredshtles** · 11-22-2019, 01:32 PM

Originally Posted by ~mikey b

hey did you guys ever notice that single women are are really hard to figure out ?

So you must be new to women?

**oftpiste** · 11-22-2019, 02:20 PM

Don't try. What's the point? Just figure out if you can/want to hang with their thang and take it from there.

Originally Posted by ~mikey b

hey did you guys ever notice that single women are are really hard to figure out ?

**~mikey b** · 11-23-2019, 01:51 AM

this girl seems worth the effort

If nothing works out it’s ok

I think she would drive me crazy

**~mikey b** · 11-23-2019, 01:58 AM

anyone in the Bay Area got a recommendation for high quality sushi grade fish?

she likes sushi so I’m gonna make it for her

**MakersTeleMark** · 11-23-2019, 02:24 AM

Originally Posted by ~mikey b

anyone in the Bay Area got a recommendation for high quality sushi grade fish?

she likes sushi so I’m gonna make it for her

https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-...-goods/3406281

Seriously, watch this guy and his girl. Loves the IPA's, just quit his job as a master sushi chef in SF. I'd go to his restaurant that he just left. He mentions is over a couple times over the years.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNq...VY9Sx_ZK_WuOAA

**~mikey b** · 11-23-2019, 02:31 AM

nah I’m not gonna watch that

don’t need sushi chef hero worship

I need proper fish

**MakersTeleMark** · 11-23-2019, 02:37 AM

Originally Posted by ~mikey b

nah I’m not gonna watch that

don’t need sushi chef hero worship

I need proper fish

Then maybe get a real girlfriend and shave?

**riser4** · 11-23-2019, 05:54 AM

Wasn't there a guy in Alaska who gave fish to women he was stalking?

**~mikey b** · 11-23-2019, 08:31 AM

probably Jed

**LegoSkier** · 11-23-2019, 09:06 AM

Originally Posted by ~mikey b

anyone in the Bay Area got a recommendation for high quality sushi grade fish?

she likes sushi so I’m gonna make it for her

https://www.surukisupermarket.com/

**BFD** · 11-23-2019, 09:38 AM

Originally Posted by ~mikey b

nah I’m not gonna watch that

don’t need sushi chef hero worship

I need proper fish

The rice is more important unless you are going sashimi.

**liv2ski** · 11-23-2019, 01:22 PM

Just buy a quality piece of Ahi (Blue Fin if available) about an inch and a half thick, turn the grill on as hot as possible and sear about 1:30-2 minutes per side. That cooks about a quarter inch on each side. Slice in quarter inch thick pieces and serve with wasabi and soy sauce. I do a ceasar salad and baked potatoes with it. Nobody complains and I am sure she would be impressed.

**CP99** · 11-23-2019, 02:53 PM

I don't know how this went from divorce to fish, but whatever.

I was a divorce attorney at one point in my career. My clients would come to me complaining about their spouse dating someone else while the divorce was pending. It made it seem like a third party, someone they didn't know, was having a hand raising their children. Everyone resented it.

The advice I gave to my clients was this: encourage your soon-to-be ex-spouse to date other people. In divorce, free time and an idle mind are very dangerous things. If your spouse has either of those things, their attention will turn to how much they resent you, everything you supposedly did wrong, what a horrible parent you are, etc. However, if they have a distraction in the form of a new relationship, then they DON'T have time to focus on how much they hate you. And if they do still have the time, they won't want to spend it being negative. They will want to invest it into their new relationship.

Encourage your spouse to find something, or someone, that's positive in their life. When they have that, the focus won't be on you anymore. And that will move things forward for each of you.

**oftpiste** · 11-23-2019, 04:35 PM

Good shit JONG! Seriously.

**Gcooker** · 11-23-2019, 05:13 PM

^^^^ ya that’s some solid advice CP

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**frorider** · 11-23-2019, 05:28 PM

Yeah but that shit can backfire. I’ve observed the new flame convincing the ‘amicably separating’ spouse that they were fucked over in the old relationship.

So you’re kinda gambling on your ex’s ability to choose wisely.

**Gcooker** · 11-23-2019, 06:04 PM

^^^ also good advice

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**liv2ski** · 11-23-2019, 06:19 PM

Originally Posted by frorider

Yeah but that shit can backfire. I’ve observed the new flame convincing the ‘amicably separating’ spouse that they were fucked over in the old relationship.

So you’re kinda gambling on your ex’s ability to choose wisely.

You could always just nuke them from space and behead the remains. A stake through the heart is likely a good call on the ex too.