Divorce Lawyer Rec in SLC

[TNKen]

Disclaimer: Not a divorce attorney or licensed in Utah.

Great advice on Legal Aid, only problem is they have more to do than you can imagine. If you want someone to aggressively help here, they probably aren't the best choice.

Even in Tennessee, the kids come first. He is angling on 50/50% shared custody to avoid support payments. If she is a stay-at-home mom, make sure she calculates the amount of daycare expenses necessary for her to obtain gainful employment. No judge will agree to a split school arrangement; he can forget that shit.

If he decides to quit his job or take a lower paying job, the courts may "impute" income to him regardless.

Big issues on insurance and health care with 3 kids, as it can be financially devastating. This is a major point in this mess.

If he works, don't forget about her share of his IRA/retirement. Same for her, if she is employed, her IRA/retirement is in jeopardy as well.

Find out where the money went. Bet he has a little bank account only in his name somewhere.

The judge will not be kind to him for fathering 3 kids then yelling abandon ship. Especially when the manipulation and financial arrangements are brought to light.

Good luck to your sis and nieces/nephews.

Ken

[MagnificentUnicorn]

Mtngirl didn't make this thread about herself. You and Aaron Wright and a couple of other folks did. All Mtngirl did was make a couple of mildly humorous and appropriate cracks. If she made a mistake it was in trying to defend herself against assholes. The assholes always win.

Really? First response to this thread was "damn bitch probably wants the house too". That seems totally appropriate. What if someone had made the first post in her last housing/life crisis thread " have you tried a dating/roomie site for people with herpes?" That would be mildly humorous and appropriate? It's just a little sarcasm and good natured humor.

Here, look at my and others responses to her crisis thread last summerhttp://www.tetongravity.com/forums/s...ple?highlight=
It's not like I'm being hypocritical, most people have been exceedingly nice and patient with her.

Oh, and I've been through a divorce and did try and provide some relevant input.

[Adolf Allerbush]

Really? First response to this thread was "damn bitch probably wants the house too". That seems totally appropriate. What if someone had made the first post in her last housing/life crisis thread " have you tried a dating/roomie site for people with herpes?" That would be mildly humorous and appropriate? It's just a little sarcasm and good natured humor.

Here, look at my and others responses to her crisis thread last summerhttp://www.tetongravity.com/forums/s...ple?highlight=
It's not like I'm being hypocritical, most people have been exceedingly nice and patient with her.

Oh, and I've been through a divorce and did try and provide some relevant input.

This. Don't dish shit out if you can't take it.

The "kids house" situation Harry described is interesting. I wonder if the ex's just leave their shaggin pad a total shithole each time they swap residences.

As for the OP, I have to think even in UT the courts side with the mom in these types of circumstances more often than not.

[Tuckerman]

Kids house, what a interesting idea. Porns bad, WTF? Mtngrl brings it.