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    Quote Originally Posted by tgapp View Post
    Yeah, the truth is, the world of porn is SO big that there are a million corners and niches where one can carve out a decent side hustle. Animated porn and custom audio is probably one of the biggest niches.

    Being married to a content creator has been a very interesting experience - overall super positive. The amount of shame that people feel regarding sex and pornography is on full display, every day. For the most part, her fans are kind, respectful, and appreciative - a lot of her content focuses on sex/kink education, so she gets tons of messages from men (incels) in the middle east and India that are super grateful to her. Overall, incels are pretty benign.

    Fairly regularly, though, she gets messages like "I am a successful business man and I am drowning in pussy all the time and what you are doing is disgusting and I would never interact with a whore like you".. okay buddy, you sought her out, followed her, and took the time to write a message here. Got it. The number of men (even in this thread) who willingly consume pornography but then shame those who create it/participate in it is astounding - the attitude of "I would never want my (partner/daughter/friend) doing that, but sure, I'll wank to it behind their backs!!" seems to be an extension of toxic masculinity wherein promiscuity among men is praised ("he's such a stud!") while promiscuity in women is vilified ("what a slut!").

    On the whole, her relationship to content creation/voyeurism has been extremely positive. She's become much more open, much less insecure, and much hornier - as have I. The extra cash is a nice bonus, but by far not the goal here.
    Super interesting, thanks for sharing. I've grown to find porn entirely boring in general so paying for what is so widely available for free is hard to comprehend, but more power to her. If I could get paid to play with my dong on a webcam I'd be all over it. The dudes sending "you're whore" DMs are obviously either trolling or projecting their own self-loathing.

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    Old man stories, eh?

    Well, my dad thought we'd get in way less trouble driving an International Travelall as our first vehicle at 16. You certainly were not going to be out racing it. (My bros who are 6 years older than I had it first.)

    Now that was a beast to roll start. Pick a hill. You're never going to push start it unless you've got a mob.
    I can't even recall why we were roll-starting it in the first place. Bad starter? Bad battery? Something else?

    It was like a tank though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tgapp View Post
    Yeah, the truth is, the world of porn is SO big that there are a million corners and niches where one can carve out a decent side hustle. Animated porn and custom audio is probably one of the biggest niches.

    Being married to a content creator has been a very interesting experience - overall super positive. The amount of shame that people feel regarding sex and pornography is on full display, every day. For the most part, her fans are kind, respectful, and appreciative - a lot of her content focuses on sex/kink education, so she gets tons of messages from men (incels) in the middle east and India that are super grateful to her. Overall, incels are pretty benign.

    Fairly regularly, though, she gets messages like "I am a successful business man and I am drowning in pussy all the time and what you are doing is disgusting and I would never interact with a whore like you".. okay buddy, you sought her out, followed her, and took the time to write a message here. Got it. The number of men (even in this thread) who willingly consume pornography but then shame those who create it/participate in it is astounding - the attitude of "I would never want my (partner/daughter/friend) doing that, but sure, I'll wank to it behind their backs!!" seems to be an extension of toxic masculinity wherein promiscuity among men is praised ("he's such a stud!") while promiscuity in women is vilified ("what a slut!").

    On the whole, her relationship to content creation/voyeurism has been extremely positive. She's become much more open, much less insecure, and much hornier - as have I. The extra cash is a nice bonus, but by far not the goal here.
    Fascinating. I dig it. Good on the both of you for finding such a thing that you can share.

    Per the fucked up male-female promiscuity; I'd say it's more about our fucked up gender roles we foist upon men and women here in the west. I remember that while in college; I dated frequently, though never overlapped on girls. However, I was viewed as a player and any other related pejorative you could think of because I chose to find the right partner. Because this was conservative Montana, I guess dating - though never cheating - was viewed as a player. It's an example of our fucked up, puritanical views on gender roles and sexuality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bobcat Sig View Post
    It's an example of our fucked up, puritanical views
    Could have stopped right there, it goes way beyond sex.

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    I support single and married sex, drugs, and rock and roll.
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    I don't know what to think about this: https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/em...cid=uxbndlbing

    My gut tells me the zipline probably could have easily held them both and he killed himself for nothing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tgapp View Post
    Yeah, the truth is, the world of porn is SO big that there are a million corners and niches where one can carve out a decent side hustle. Animated porn and custom audio is probably one of the biggest niches.

    Being married to a content creator has been a very interesting experience - overall super positive. The amount of shame that people feel regarding sex and pornography is on full display, every day. For the most part, her fans are kind, respectful, and appreciative - a lot of her content focuses on sex/kink education, so she gets tons of messages from men (incels) in the middle east and India that are super grateful to her. Overall, incels are pretty benign.

    Fairly regularly, though, she gets messages like "I am a successful business man and I am drowning in pussy all the time and what you are doing is disgusting and I would never interact with a whore like you".. okay buddy, you sought her out, followed her, and took the time to write a message here. Got it. The number of men (even in this thread) who willingly consume pornography but then shame those who create it/participate in it is astounding - the attitude of "I would never want my (partner/daughter/friend) doing that, but sure, I'll wank to it behind their backs!!" seems to be an extension of toxic masculinity wherein promiscuity among men is praised ("he's such a stud!") while promiscuity in women is vilified ("what a slut!").

    On the whole, her relationship to content creation/voyeurism has been extremely positive. She's become much more open, much less insecure, and much hornier - as have I. The extra cash is a nice bonus, but by far not the goal here.
    You have a much more positive association with incels than I do, though I hadn't thought about people in places like the middle east. To me I figure there's a difference between being in that state of celibacy and being a toxic piece of shit about it, making it part of your identity, and spreading the misery. Another good friend of mine would let me help choose the pictures she put into the world, but after she showed me the responses she got I decided that was as involved as I wanted to be. It seemed like an awful lot of hate and toxic messaging for someone making fairly vanilla porn and putting it out into world. And there was a ton of body image shaming on a level that bothered me. I don't mind excusing some of what goes on in places like this thread, with images copied from elsewhere, but it seemed like some of the people messaging her were relishing the fact that they could personally attack the woman in the pictures/clips.
    Hopefully that's changed, but I'm skeptical. I'm glad that's not something your wife has to deal with.

    I'm not sure where I stand about the consuming vs creating thing. I get what you're saying, and there's a lot of truth to it. But to me there's an issue with how/when women choose to get into it, there's a lot of pressure around youth and being 18-19 that seems like it makes it difficult to weigh options well. The women I knew who seemed most content with their choices decided to do this later, at 22-30.

    I found the idea of dating women who were making porn interesting, then appealing, then less appealing. At the time though, I was in a stretch of years where I was working way too much and not dealing with it in healthy ways. So when I think back about those relationships I wonder if it was more both of us struggling with balancing life and work. At the same time, I prefer to be fairly private about lots of things and so I'm not sure if the issues would be the same. I suspect I would struggle to maintain a relationship with someone who was or wanted to be an online 'influencer'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dantheman View Post
    My gut tells me the zipline probably could have easily held them both and he killed himself for nothing.
    Probably. But 250lb total limit on the line could be borderline depending on the two people in question. Seems weird the worker guy wouldn't be tethered to the platform? I dunno, never been ziplining.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MiddleOfNight View Post
    Probably. But 250lb total limit on the line could be borderline depending on the two people in question. Seems weird the worker guy wouldn't be tethered to the platform? I dunno, never been ziplining.
    I would think the advertised 250 lb limit isn’t the point of failure.

    There is a margin of safety built in I would hope. It might snap at 350-400 pounds.

    Poor guy, if it was a deliberate fall that’s a shame.


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    IME with rigging the safety factor is often 5x.

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    Yup. Lots of bad decisions made by the employee. Rigging has a 5x safety factor beyond the working load limit, so he was fine hanging our there so long is the line doesn't get shock loaded. But why did he feel the need to latch onto her in the first place? He was on the receiving end and she went off the platform rolling back and would have stopped. She would have been fine out there on her own, so why clip into her in the first place? They have to have a basic retrieval system to get people that roll back from a platform.

    And the dude should have been tied off for sure.
    Wait, how can we trust this guy^^^ He's clearly not DJSapp

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    wait.....

    "slut" is considered a pejorative? When did that happen?


    Quote Originally Posted by tgapp View Post
    Yeah, the truth is, the world of porn is SO big that there are a million corners and niches where one can carve out a decent side hustle. Animated porn and custom audio is probably one of the biggest niches.

    Being married to a content creator has been a very interesting experience - overall super positive. The amount of shame that people feel regarding sex and pornography is on full display, every day. For the most part, her fans are kind, respectful, and appreciative - a lot of her content focuses on sex/kink education, so she gets tons of messages from men (incels) in the middle east and India that are super grateful to her. Overall, incels are pretty benign.

    Fairly regularly, though, she gets messages like "I am a successful business man and I am drowning in pussy all the time and what you are doing is disgusting and I would never interact with a whore like you".. okay buddy, you sought her out, followed her, and took the time to write a message here. Got it. The number of men (even in this thread) who willingly consume pornography but then shame those who create it/participate in it is astounding - the attitude of "I would never want my (partner/daughter/friend) doing that, but sure, I'll wank to it behind their backs!!" seems to be an extension of toxic masculinity wherein promiscuity among men is praised ("he's such a stud!") while promiscuity in women is vilified ("what a slut!").

    On the whole, her relationship to content creation/voyeurism has been extremely positive. She's become much more open, much less insecure, and much hornier - as have I. The extra cash is a nice bonus, but by far not the goal here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by oftpiste View Post
    wait.....

    "slut" is considered a pejorative? When did that happen?
    Always has been, I thought.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tgapp View Post
    Only Fans helps pay for my ski vacations too. So, there's that.

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    Tell me more.... my wife is between jobs right now. Actually could use a new boat, she would be on board with that!
    www.skevikskis.com Check em out!

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    Quote Originally Posted by el hefe View Post
    Tell me more.... my wife is between jobs right now. Actually could use a new boat, she would be on board with that!
    Motorboat, perhaps?
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    Quote Originally Posted by el hefe View Post
    Tell me more.... my wife is between jobs right now. Actually could use a new boat, she would be on board with that!
    Happy to help if you are serious. It's a grind. We intentionally keep the grind pretty low-key, since it's just a side hustle and not our main gigs.

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    I'm definitely not as enlightened as you. Fortunately for me nobody wants to pay to see a 60-year-old woman, not even a hot one like her, so as Jesse Jackson might say, the question is moot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ötzi View Post
    Fortunately for me nobody wants to pay to see a 60-year-old woman, not even a hot one like her, so as Jesse Jackson might say, the question is moot.
    I bet you would be shocked at how much money you're leaving on the table

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    Quote Originally Posted by Soups View Post
    I bet you would be shocked at how much money you're leaving on the table
    no kidding, there are thousands of OF pages like this:

    https://onlyfans.com/u141419019

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    Quote Originally Posted by ötzi View Post
    I'm definitely not as enlightened as you. Fortunately for me nobody wants to pay to see a 60-year-old woman, not even a hot one like her, so as Jesse Jackson might say, the question is moot.
    To a 90 year old dude who just popped a whole bottle of Viagra, she's barely legal.
    Wait, how can we trust this guy^^^ He's clearly not DJSapp

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    Many of you have already heard this most excellent Shatner version of Common People, but this TAS edit is just so perfect. An oldie, but a goodie:


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