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  1. I don't know what I'm doing right now. Wife...

    I don't know what I'm doing right now.

    Wife asked me to come over yesterday to help with the kids. Took them out in the morning and then spent the afternoon cleaning the play yard with the...
  2. Right back atcha. Sorry you're dealing with this...

    Right back atcha. Sorry you're dealing with this shit too.

    Fuck. I miss my kids. Miserable.
  3. Thanks gents.

    Thanks gents.
  4. I'm in the thick of it. Knew I would be. Not...

    I'm in the thick of it. Knew I would be. Not surprised. Doesn't make it less painful.

    This will be the first night in all 3 kids lives I haven't said goodnight.

    But, having that isn't worth...
  5. This sucks.

    This sucks.
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    Almost nobody there. Great weather. Very variable...

    Almost nobody there. Great weather. Very variable snow. Pretty much have to walk through dirt and rocks too get to where snow starts.
  7. Good point. Thank you

    Good point. Thank you
  8. This is false. But, I suppose it fits your...

    This is false. But, I suppose it fits your bigoted views so you decide to post it?

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_in_same-sex_relationships
  9. Respond not react. Must have said that to...

    Respond not react.
    Must have said that to myself fifty times tonight. And it worked.
    For a variety of reasons I couldn't move out until today, so we had a few forced days together.
    Not sure...
  10. Man. If only. My ego always getting in the way. ...

    Man. If only. My ego always getting in the way.

    Wendigo, everything was better when I was practicing daily. Thanks for the reminder.
  11. Can you direct me towards something I can read...

    Can you direct me towards something I can read about responding versus reacting?
  12. Thanks for the understanding words. I'm sorry you...

    Thanks for the understanding words. I'm sorry you went through it as well.
  13. Thanks, but it's a fair comment. I've been an...

    Thanks, but it's a fair comment. I've been an asshole far too often on here. That's why I took a long break.

    Thing is I was an asshole when my wife met me. I think she thought that was going to...
  14. Yeah. I think main reason she asked me to come...

    Yeah. I think main reason she asked me to come back is because she couldn't get herself to feed, bathe, and put three young kids to bed.

    Any recommendations for a divorce attorney in Seattle?
  15. Ty. It was nice being back in the house last...

    Ty.

    It was nice being back in the house last night. Of course the bullshit started again this morning.
    "the only way you're staying in this house is if you do everything I say and act exactly as...
  16. Great book. Refuge recovery is also a great...

    Great book. Refuge recovery is also a great program. Much more my style, as soon as I am out of this marriage I will be able to go back to my regular meetings.
  17. Ty

    Ty
  18. I agree. I rarely go to meetings. One of the...

    I agree. I rarely go to meetings. One of the tools in my belt though.
  19. I definitely questioned my sobriety today. Ended...

    I definitely questioned my sobriety today. Ended up parked outside of an aa meeting while on the phone for an hour. Better than the alternative.
  20. I'm at a bit of a loss as to how, but I'm sitting...

    I'm at a bit of a loss as to how, but I'm sitting in my house after putting my eldest to bed.

    I chose to go with option b for the reason most of you cited. I am really making all decisions based...
  21. Great advice and thanks for the incredibly kind...

    Great advice and thanks for the incredibly kind offer.
  22. That's my inclination also. A. Seems like a bit...

    That's my inclination also.
    A. Seems like a bit of ego involved. No real reason to do it.

    We are in Seattle.
  23. I'm so sorry. Thanks for the empathy. Lawyer...

    I'm so sorry. Thanks for the empathy.

    Lawyer first thing.
  24. It's such a shit situation. The nastiness from...

    It's such a shit situation. The nastiness from her is unbearable.

    I am out of the house. Even gave her my keys. It was that or she was taking the kids or calling the police. She had threatened in...
  25. This fucking cunt is torching it on my son's...

    This fucking cunt is torching it on my son's birthday.
  26. Thanks everyone for the advice. In such a...

    Thanks everyone for the advice.

    In such a weird place right now. I have zero fucks left to give and for some reason that seems to be working.
  27. Oh, and nesting. Anybody have experience or know...

    Oh, and nesting. Anybody have experience or know somebody that does?
  28. Wife seems to think that I'm still trying to make...

    Wife seems to think that I'm still trying to make things work. I'm not. I really accepted that we're done and I need to move on. Felt like a weight had been lifted. Now I am trying to get along with...
  29. Good point.

    Good point.
  30. It really is amazing. Once the switch is flipped...

    It really is amazing. Once the switch is flipped there is nothing you can do.
  31. Good one. Early signs - immediately working to...

    Good one.

    Early signs - immediately working to create a wedge between me and long term friends.

    Drastic reduction in physical intimacy as soon as we moved in together before getting married.
    ...
  32. I've known for a long time I'd be posting in this...

    I've known for a long time I'd be posting in this thread eventually. I guess I've been prepared. I was ready two years ago and then we got pregnant. Now three kids in the mix. What a shit show. Usual...
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    First, I want to thank all of you that commented...

    First, I want to thank all of you that commented with support. I really appreciate all of you

    I update this hoping that maybe it will help someone else

    The Strattera started to help less and...
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    Yep. My fault. I should have had it locked. Still...

    Yep. My fault. I should have had it locked. Still annoying. People suck.
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    Insert with adjustable double ball mount

    Insert with adjustable double ball mount
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    Somebody stole the trailer hitch off my truck...

    Somebody stole the trailer hitch off my truck last night. I need it in a few days, so I'm going to be out a couple hundred plus buying a new one.
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    Is that a professional manicure?

    Is that a professional manicure?
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    Too smooth. Soft.

    Too smooth. Soft.
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    Yeah, I'm that guy...

    Shit you do that you know pisses off somebody.

    I'm that guy that blows all my leaves off my yard into the street and into your yard.

    What you got?
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    My three year old has turned me into a full on...

    My three year old has turned me into a full on Lego nerd. Loved this video. Love building with Technics and an putting a lot of time into learning how to create new stuff mixing Technics and standard...
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    You sure that's a man hand?

    You sure that's a man hand?
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    Use the equity to buy another good deal. Rent...

    Use the equity to buy another good deal. Rent current house out to cover mortgage. Remodel new home, rinse repeat. Financial Independence comes from long term assets. Own ten homes by 40 and you'll...
  43. Dude. Seriously. Been over ten years and I still...

    Dude. Seriously. Been over ten years and I still want a cigarette or a Copenhagen once in awhile
  44. Went there once and pledged to never go back....

    Went there once and pledged to never go back. Worst place I've ever been to see a show. Traffic and parking so suck. But, the sound is also shit due to the shape of the amphitheatre. Entire layout of...
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    That's also illegal in most states. Hope that all...

    That's also illegal in most states. Hope that all got tickets.
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    There's nothing wrong with sucking dick. You...

    There's nothing wrong with sucking dick. You should try it, you might like it.
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    Fuck HP. Will never buy another if your shitty...

    Fuck HP. Will never buy another if your shitty ass printer scanners
  48. I think you think you're being funny. We've...

    I think you think you're being funny.

    We've been conditioned to automatically assume that black people are sketchy or violent. We've also been conditioned to believe that police are safe and will...
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    Good stuff

    Good stuff
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    HP's new printers that require you to reconnect...

    HP's new printers that require you to reconnect with a new pin if you turn your printer off. Stupid waste of time.

    Worse, I have to completely reinstall. Always when you have a ton of shit to do
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