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01-19-2024, 04:13 AM
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Question about managing kids on slope
Single parent teaching 3 kids. Twin 6 year old and 9 year old.
9 year old is good. Can turn, stop, get off chair, and navigate lift line. One of the twins can keep up with her.
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01-08-2024, 10:24 PM
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This afternoon was so fucking good at the fir....
This afternoon was so fucking good at the fir. Thursday is going to be insane.
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09-04-2023, 07:15 PM
Thread: Watcha cookin'?
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Been working on pizza lately. Kids say my...
Been working on pizza lately. Kids say my homemade pizza is way better than delivery. 469056
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08-21-2023, 11:16 PM
Thread: Rockhounding
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Rockhounding has been my hobby for a couple years...
Rockhounding has been my hobby for a couple years now. Clearer pics taken in natural light both dry and wet would be helpful. I can't really tell anything with those pics
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08-21-2023, 02:37 AM
Thread: Title 9 is dead
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Because sex and gender are not the same thing. I...
Because sex and gender are not the same thing. I only brought up intersex to show that sex is not binary
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08-19-2023, 08:41 PM
Thread: Title 9 is dead
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Medal for each category? Cis Male, trans male,...
Medal for each category? Cis Male, trans male, etc...
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08-19-2023, 06:56 PM
Thread: Title 9 is dead
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But, the percentage is irrelevant as either way...
But, the percentage is irrelevant as either way it proves that biologically sex is not a binary.
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08-19-2023, 06:55 PM
Thread: Title 9 is dead
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As everything it depends on the parameters used,...
As everything it depends on the parameters used, hence why I added "considering all factors". The 1.3-1.7% figure is specifically attributed to "physically identifiable traits".
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08-19-2023, 04:05 PM
Thread: Title 9 is dead
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It's not too hard. Considering all factors...
It's not too hard.
Considering all factors about 10% of the population can fall under the "intersex" category. Scientifically sex is on a spectrum. Sociologically gender is on a spectrum. Most... -
08-19-2023, 03:59 PM
Thread: Title 9 is dead
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This is a tough one. First, what's in the article...
This is a tough one. First, what's in the article is rare, but obviously does happen.
I'm about as woke as it gets, but if something doesn't seem fair, it probably isn't. Maybe get rid of the... -
08-13-2023, 07:43 PM
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I would bet my left nut that he's a predator
I would bet my left nut that he's a predator
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08-13-2023, 03:45 PM
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For sure. Just had to go through mediation cause...
For sure. Just had to go through mediation cause my kid fell off his BMX and broke his leg. Ex claimed I was a dangerous parent. She wasted a bunch of money and looked like an idiot.
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08-13-2023, 03:40 PM
Thread: Got change?
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Good shit
Good shit
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08-13-2023, 03:39 PM
Thread: Got change?
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Hmmm, I guess starting in full swing. Hahaha....
Hmmm, I guess starting in full swing. Hahaha. Getting laid at middle age is surprisingly easy. Bout to get back in to skydiving. I think having three young kids keeps that all in check though.
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08-13-2023, 12:01 PM
Thread: Got change?
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Cured. Something good came from it
Cured. Something good came from it
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08-12-2023, 11:24 PM
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On the other side and damn glad to be. Life is...
On the other side and damn glad to be.
Life is good again.
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08-12-2023, 11:16 PM
Thread: Got change?
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Got change?
Fuck dudes. Been awhile.
What did I miss in the last couple years?
I'm back healed and healthy after the divorce. Big thanks to the helpful voices here.
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05-30-2022, 11:24 AM
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No dude. I was married to a woman. I'm the B in...
No dude. I was married to a woman. I'm the B in LGBT...
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05-29-2022, 11:22 PM
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Fist bump. I've never been out on TGR but my...
Fist bump.
I've never been out on TGR but my friends know I'm queer.
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05-29-2022, 06:17 PM
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All I know is that I tried to make things easy...
All I know is that I tried to make things easy and figured as long as I was doing right by my kids I didn't need a lawyer.
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05-28-2022, 06:53 PM
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My lawyer knows her lawyer and said something...
My lawyer knows her lawyer and said something like "oh, she's a fighter, she's not going to let your ex make a deal without going to court".
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05-26-2022, 06:35 PM
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Lots of great advice and insight. Much thanks...
Lots of great advice and insight. Much thanks again to everyone.
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05-26-2022, 06:34 PM
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Yeah, I mean it sucks. Definitely going to be...
Yeah, I mean it sucks. Definitely going to be harmful to our relationship as co-parents. And, it's fucking stupid that two reasonable adults can't figure shit out like this without attorneys.
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05-25-2022, 07:35 AM
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I'm feeling a lot of guilt around going for a...
I'm feeling a lot of guilt around going for a lawyer. Ex has been really reasonable, suggesting I just pay what I can and that we keep things off the books. Even offering a few extra hours with the...
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05-11-2022, 10:46 PM
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That's really how I feel, but I offered the most...
That's really how I feel, but I offered the most I could possibly pay and she refused it. It really is sad. I plan on still giving her as much as I can, but I expect the court ordered support will be...
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05-11-2022, 07:30 PM
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Yeah, attorney already said I'm screwed on that...
Yeah, attorney already said I'm screwed on that one. But, boy is she gonna be screwed on the rest. Sucks to be her. She's gonna be very unhappy that she pushed this. Crossing the T's and dotting the...
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05-11-2022, 05:28 PM
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Lawyer found that she slipped in that she gets...
Lawyer found that she slipped in that she gets 30k of the proceeds from the sale of the house, then we divide what's left. She's always said that we split the proceeds. Not sure how I missed it, but...
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05-07-2022, 11:37 PM
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05-07-2022, 11:36 PM
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It's really true about the switch that flips....
It's really true about the switch that flips. Once it's flipped any perceived niceness is temporary and only proffered because it serves a purpose.
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05-07-2022, 11:32 PM
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Uggg, I'm so sorry. That must be an awesome...
Uggg, I'm so sorry. That must be an awesome collection of hot wheels.
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05-07-2022, 09:16 AM
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415600 415601 I had a nice lego room before...
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05-06-2022, 09:31 PM
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You guys are really great. I can't even express...
You guys are really great. I can't even express how much I appreciate all of you.
Very hard not to text her and try to reason with her. I am having a very hard time understanding what she thinks... -
05-06-2022, 11:30 AM
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Great advice. Thank you. Surprised by the...
Great advice. Thank you.
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05-06-2022, 07:32 AM
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Well, I tried being the nice guy and another...
Well, I tried being the nice guy and another 1k,just not enough for her, so now it's lawyer time and she's probably going to end up with less.
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05-05-2022, 06:43 PM
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Advice please Lawyer says we have a great case...
Advice please
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05-04-2022, 01:49 AM
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Acostiga, I can really relate to how you feel...
Acostiga,
I can really relate to how you feel about trying to make it work for your kid, and feeling responsible to your wife.
Leaving was the best thing I ever did for my kids. -
05-01-2022, 01:59 PM
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Dude. My ex tells me that she's done getting...
Dude.
My ex tells me that she's done getting anything she wants from the house that we are selling and I have two days to get what I want before the contractors throw everything away.
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04-29-2022, 06:28 PM
Thread: Trucks.
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Real life mileage in the new Tundra is not...
Real life mileage in the new Tundra is not impressive. Averaging 16.2 over about 700 miles. This tiny little engine has to fucking work hard on Seattle's hills. Truck is gutless until the the turbo...
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04-29-2022, 12:46 PM
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The custody arrangement is what hurts the most.
The custody arrangement is what hurts the most.
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04-28-2022, 07:03 PM
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I feel fucked, but really I'm getting the typical...
I feel fucked, but really I'm getting the typical deal. She gets alimony because she has a masters degree and quit a six figure a year job to be a stay at home mom.
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04-27-2022, 03:38 PM
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Thank you so much Altasnob. I'm pretty much on...
Thank you so much Altasnob. I'm pretty much on the other side emotionally, most of the time. This financial shit is tough, but I know I will get through it.
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04-27-2022, 03:35 PM
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That's good news, because in practice the support...
That's good news, because in practice the support order would make me homeless if I have to pay for nanny
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04-27-2022, 02:56 PM
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Sounds like I'm probably fucked, because yeah it...
Sounds like I'm probably fucked, because yeah it says "work related daycare".
I just don't see how it's fair that she gets to increase her income 100% at my expense.
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04-27-2022, 02:53 PM
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Thanks man! Luckily our house sells this month...
Thanks man! Luckily our house sells this month and it's the high season for construction so I'm ready to spend.
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04-27-2022, 02:51 PM
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My ex had me convinced I was mental. To the point...
My ex had me convinced I was mental. To the point that I convinced a psychiatrist that I was bi-polar. Shortly after separation my therapist let me know that I wasn't. That I was suffering ptsd and...
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04-27-2022, 10:04 AM
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Re: Johnny Depp. I was nearly in tears this...
Re: Johnny Depp.
I was nearly in tears this morning listening to Amber calling him a bitch for his response to her hitting him. Fucking toxic abusive bitch.
I've fucking been there. -
04-27-2022, 10:01 AM
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Here's the rub. I was in a bad state after being...
Here's the rub.
I was in a bad state after being psychologically and physically abused for 8 years.
I was living in an airbnb and was barely getting to see my kids.
My ex said she wanted to... -
04-27-2022, 09:34 AM
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It's fucking absurd. It's hard to motivate to...
It's fucking absurd.
It's hard to motivate to work, when I am broke as fuck no matter what I do. -
04-27-2022, 09:33 AM
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I'm embarrassed to say that maintenance is until...
I'm embarrassed to say that maintenance is until the kids are 18.
Twins are 4 eldest is 7.
I am well and truly fucked. -
04-27-2022, 08:11 AM
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Pretty much. 50% of extra curricular activities....
Pretty much.
50% of extra curricular activities. 50% of education expenses. 50% of daycare.
And she can choose to add anything at anytime without regard to whether I can afford it.
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