^^ pretty much this I think. Like all things, there is a bunch of gray between the black and white dos and donts in the workplace. I share a lot with some coworkers who are friends, much less with people I rarely interact with. Even from job to job it changes based on the culture of the company. Is it open? Is it more buttoned up? And that’s me as someone who gets all the benefits of my gender/race/sexuality. I can’t imagine how much harder it is to navigate when you have to weigh the possible negatives of being “found out” vs telling people