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BS720
This is a horrible question to ask, but, is there a way to plan financially for a divorce? Say you get some rumblings that make your nervous. Say the wife makes a quarter of what you do, and you work two jobs because she pushes you to save for something(house, business, whatever). When ten years hits in California, it seems beneficial to be eyeballs deep in debt and working ten hours a week, to keep yourself from being Forced to work two jobs to be able to pay her for the rest of your life. Is there a resource for this kind of information?
There is something on the internet called the “list”. I’ve posted it before and got panned. It’s basically a playbook to prepare for Armageddon, and it at least gives you an idea of what the other person may be up to. It definetly explained a lot that happened to me after the fact. Women use it to.
http://forum.mensdivorce.com/viewtopic.php?t=13374
It’s hard to react to the clues when you have kids are hoping for the best. I had several chances to protect myself but did not act. My A-hole estate planner wrote my trust wrong and my pre martial assets got smoked.
Possession is 9/10th of the law. In a do over, I’d press the button and move my liquid assets offshore in a heart beat and give the attorneys the bird. Go spend a season in cham. Maybe stay. You can’t negotiate with terrorists. If you do, they keep coming back.
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