So just to add some closure (I'm sure you were lying awake at night wondering!), you were spot on. We checked our return from this year and compared...

It would certainly be helpful to compare this years return with previous years, and I appreciate the advice on what to look for, but since my wife...

So did your accountant shed any light?? We're in the same boat. Both have been in the same jobs 15+ years, same house for over a decade, same fucking...