Curious about what the collective take on this situation would be:
Got a trip planned to meet up with a bunch of friends. We're all headed out to a game one night. One friend is a guy with some emotional problems who needs a lot of attention. Nice guy, can be fun to hang out with, but a pretty difficult guy in larger groups and would make it impossible for everyone to just relax and have a good time. That guy is not invited to the game and the question comes down to explaining why he's not invited. Options are: make up some BS excuse for why he can't go, or be 'honest' and tell him he doesn't fit in. FWIW, other time during the trip is already dedicated to seeing this guy and hanging out for a while. Currently leaning towards the BS option as I can't see why being honest would help anyone in this situation.
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